well I love my wife, and we don't bother with sex.
Sex is more trouble than its worth
Either way one is still rejected, the other wont say why, he or she has too compensate in other ways too look like the hero. Its his fault, its her fault, liars, controllers sorry the sex is bad,..you finally do it and your still hate one anothers...its a never ending cycle when its bad sex.
His trust is first priority and the sex is just as important. Sex is a very high percentage of the relationship. Then when you finally do it its a chore or i better do it or i will lose him or her....this is not love. This is managing. My case is different i want the friendship and the sex...love takes time in new relationships nowadays....first priority is the trust and sex...
there is no one answer for this, there are to many vaiables
I am asexual. Sex plays no part in my relationships.
If the sex is bad love will never survive.
If sex is a pain in the ***, you're doing it wrong!