What should i do about my whiny friend?
so everyday my friend texts me about the same drama. EVERYDAY!!!! i already deal with enough negativity and im trying to move into a more positive light. but she constantly brings her problems to me about these two guys and i give her advice but she keeps going. and its silly stuff like "he hasnt text me" its none stop and i want to throw my phone when she texts. idk what to do. I want to say something to her but im afraid ill say something really hurtful. how would you tell her?
12 Answers to "What should i do about my whiny friend?"
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stop replying or tell them you've had enough
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yes.. this sounds like a good idea XDLike (1)
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I should know ;)
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Push them off the fiscal cliff ahead of us and let us know what happens to them.
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You need to just tell her as nicely as possible that you are fed up with it.
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I have no whiny friends, since I don't care for whiners.
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Hold out your outstretched hand and point too it
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Just tell her to shut the F****K up!
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Tell her to suck it up
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Don't reply.
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She needs to get laid, introduce her to someone.
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I went through a whiny patch and actually really appreciated a friend telling me so. I was a little upset at first (given that I was in a whiny place) but once I stopped and thought about it I was glad she said something so I could pull myself out of that place.
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Have you thought about telling him/her the truth? He/she might respect you for it even if it's hard for them to accept at first.
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On second thought...
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by 101Ben101 Dec 31st, 2012 at 7:20PM
well be a friend and take her for how she is or if you can deal with it then tell her and end the friendship no point driving a wedge that will inevitably one day result in a momentary lapse of emotion. Friends are friends because they put up with this though for all you no one of yours could feel the same about you.
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