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What should I do to this person?

I've been a victim again with the same person who had defamed me thru' her blog. I've lodge a complaint to the blog administrator and also to the police dept regarding about this. After her blog has been closed by the authority, again she had opened another blog and kept on attacking me. But this time, she didn't mentioned my name in her blog BUT by reading her stories, I knew, she's creating the same story like before about me. This time she even DARE the police to come forward and catch her. What should I do? should I lodge a police report again? For your info, I don't know who she/he was. We always met in one of the internet forum. Please let me know what should i do... your ideas in helping me is greatly appreciated. I'm really get stress up with this!!

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I agree with the other posters. Unless you are specifically harassed by her, you just need to stay away from the website. There is really not much you can do to control another person's thoughts or actions. Just stay away from the source of stress.

My high school principal used to say, "Give them enough rope, they'll hang themselves." She was right - let life take care of her. Vicious people get their comeuppance eventually.

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rd87	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 7:55PM Get over it. Rated: +3Vote for this!
NowSure	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 7:46PM If you guys have had a fight, how about you try to stop reading her writings. She might just have a need to vent. Move on. Rated: +2Vote for this!
TrgdyAnn	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 7:57PM Unless you know someone in computer 'Forensics', or a 'Hacker', who can help you track them down so you can file a 'Harrassment' report, I don't think you can do anything except maybe change your username, and profile. Good Luck though. I know this is maybe helpless information, but other than tucking your 'Tail', get 'Pissed-Off' & 'Interactive', somehow. I answered your question to try and help. I hope you get this resolved! Rated: +1Vote for this!
purified	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 7:39PM If she isn't using ur name u really don't have anything to complain about...yet. I'd contact the website admin. or whatever again though if she uses your name. I'd also make sure u have no contact w/ this person via email or anything. Turn the other cheek and hopefully she'll get bored when u are no longer paying attention to her...she's obviously only doing it for attention- whether it be positive or negative. Rated: +1Vote for this!
laceset	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 8:32PM I suggest you stay away from the website. Rated: +1Vote for this!
mrsbigdave34	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 9:24PM Unless you fear for your safety, there's really no point in involving the police. I mean, just stay away from this person's blogs. It only fuels their fire that you keep checking it & reading up. NOW who is obsessed? Rated: +1Vote for this!
leah761	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 9:24PM ignore it, do not respond to it adn do not talk about this person at all with friends (bad or good) The easiest way to make something stop or go away is to ignore it. pretend it does not bother you. "fake it until you make it" good luck :) Rated: +1Vote for this!
meteorite	Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 9:58PM Can u block them/ignore them. Its all annonymous.Dont let them get to you. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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