Ya you can mope and dwell on it but really you should continue to move forward and be yourself and keep your heart open no matter what, because there are still great guys out here that pray to find someone with even half the love you have to accept and give back. =) I say, smile even more from learning an important lesson that makes you so much stronger, and keep hoping for the best. Good luck
Move on & be intelligent,if he hurt you once you KNOW he's ganna hurt you again,you should've never taken him back because that makes you look weak to him,move on & stop the crying cause its a waste to cry for someone who hurt you several times,plain truth
learn your lesson sweetie and never let it happen again
We all learn from bad experiences. This bad experience made you stronger.
You're young enough to be able to forget him and find a trustworthy one, so just relax and move on.
Honey I'm going to be nice to you cos you've been through something that's close to home for me, normally if a chick was on here whining about why some guy keeps cheating on her yet she takes him back only to have him do it again, I'd probably say to them it's cos they allowed it to happen by taking them back into their life. It's basically saying to them "Here's the green light to go and take another piece of my heart now baby" and it just screams "I have no self respect and I need a man to make me feel complete" BULLSHIT!! You don't need anyone to complete you!! You need to complete yourself first if you want an equal relationship babe. You need to be happy in yourself and to love yourself if you want anyone to love you for you. I'm still trying myself to find that within myself as I've been through a lot of **** and so I've come down to a pact with my heart; no more relationships until I'm healed. I need to work on myself a lot more. I need to learn to actually really love myself. I think that's what you need to do too babe. I recently spoke to someone close to me and I confided in them that I felt like a failure and they told me that I was never ever a failure and the fact that I'm here is just so amazing and I'm not even talking about all that divine god stuff I'm talking about the fact that I'm saying you and I are amazing and bugger anyone who says differently. I'm kind of relieved for you that you didn't marry the ***** cos he's no doubt doing the same **** to his wife as he's doing to you and you can find yourself someone real ;9 plus it gives you a lot of time to focus on bettering yourself in life ;9
All the best babe xoxo ;9
You can do only one thing... LET HIM GO!!! Now take some time an regroup or get yourself together...
It's not your fault that he did this. That's entirely his responsibility.
Taking him back wasn't the smartest move, but love makes us do stupid things.
Cheating is like stealing and killing... people usually don't dare to do that, because they know it is wrong... but if they did it once, the second time will certainly be easier... so someone who is capable of cheating on you once, will do it again and again, because its easy then... and if you keep taking him back, it's even without consequences for him...
You need to move on now. Realize that you don't love him, you love the person you thought he was. But he is someone else actually... no reason to love that person. Find someone new who is worthy of your love!
Your life it's not over! He's stuppid and an *******. Time will heal everything! You'll be fine and I'm sure you'll find someone perfect for you, way better than that guy!
What you need to do now is try to move your focus. ALL you have been thinking about is this skunk of a man who used you and who still wants to use you like a Kleenex, and it hurts horribly, and now you are SO hurt you have had to block out the pain.
So now it is time to move on with your life and stop focusing on him and never think about him again. Change your telephone number so that he will never be able to call you again.
Then, start looking at other men....because they are out there. And start thinking about life again....and your friends...and going and doing fun things that you enjoy.
It's time for you to start living your life. People come and go, some easier than others. You could be missing out on so much by agonizing over the past.
maybe its a new beginning for you. Blank slate...
Oh dear... It's time to fall out of him