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What Should I do?

I think I may be Pregnant and I don't know how or if I should tell my Ex boyfriend, He's been lied to and scammed by his Prior girlfriend and I was with him for the fallout of that. He didn't want to keep the child then and I know I will want to,

We Broke up last October over stupid petty arguments, mostly due to how I hated how jealous I got and how he didn't do a whole let to set me at ease. Recently we started talking again and I never stopped loving him I flew across the country to see him for 2 days. While I was there I told him that I still love him and he said he didn't know how he felt. We slept together whilst I was there and then 2 days later when I was back home he tells me Via MSN that he doesn't love me anymore. Now I'm not sure if I can tell him what if he thinks it's just a ploy to get him to take me back?
Posted 4 months ago
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Hey congratulations on the baby :).
and it cant be a ploy because you can get a test and send it to his sorry ***! And since he is equally responsible for all that has happened, weather you visiting him or the rest... he was part of it every step of the way and didn't bother to dissuade you . He should now be very much part of the how do we do this!!! Just because your carrying that little miracle and proof of what happened doesn't mean he doesn't have to face and bear the consequences too. Really, tell him!
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 3:55PM
You should find out if you're pregnant first.. That guy sounds like an *** though.. It sounds like he just wanted sex one last time.. It's kind of ironic if you are pregnant.. Why didn't you use some form of protection though?
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:58AM
1. Find out.
2. Tell him.
3. Get a lawyer to make sure he pays his due responsibility.
4. Give birth
5. love that child.
6. Love it some more.
7. Make sure the child knows they are loved.
8. Don't make anything more important than your child, ever, for more than 2.5 seconds.
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 1:24PM
If you are pregnant, tell him and see how he reacts. My guess it he will be negative, so get rid of him FOREVER.
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 1:35PM
Find out if you are pregnant first. THEN tell him, not before, or he will think it is a ploy. If you are pregnant then it's up to him how he handles that situation. You can't be held responsible for the baggage of his previous relationship. He does sound like an *** though and I hope for your sake that you are not pregnant with his child. I hope that when you have a child, it can be a joyous time instead of a stressed filled one. Good luck!
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 1:48PM
find out if your pregnant first, yeah he'll think its just some ploy because you need to find out first.. if it was me, i wouldn't even tell him if i was.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 8:51AM
I think everyone is right. Find out if you are first. Then get a plan together. What do you want out of life. Can you do this on your own? Then tell him what you need from him to support this little angle. Then enjoy your life without him.

Best wishes
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