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What should i do?

i am 23 and dating a girl who i love but she doesnt love me because i smoke weed everyday an dont believe in god or jesus an all that, or marriage so she knows shes not gonna stay with me but i would never turn my back on my beliefs an i love my life an everything about it how can i stand my ground and help her understand?
Posted 9 months ago
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haydenrules
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I would move on to find someone else. You have your whole life ahead of you. If someone really loves you they will not ask you to change. And I am an agnostic, I don't believe in Jesus or any religion either. And Noone is going to make me change my beliefs for them. I mean, if you don't believe, you don't believe. You can't make yourself believe something. It sounds like this girl is VERY immature. I'd move on. If she isn't going to 'love you' just because of something petty like smoking weed or because you have different beliefs than her, then the relationship is not strong enough to last anyway. It would never be able to handle if a real problem occured, as all of that is petty. Good luck and take care.
Posted 9 months ago

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c8lorraine
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
just as you hold tight to your lifestyle, she too must be respected for her beliefs.

seems the relationship doesnt have enough common ground to progress to the next level........why not just be friends......why the rush to a relationship......you're young.

Have many friends, enjoy their differences.....when you are ready to settle down then seeek out a mate
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VendettA12
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
From your description, this relationship has too many differences to be successful in the long run, so I'd recommend ending it before there's a kid involved or too much history, as that will only hurt worse. You may be able to remain good friends.
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AlDente
Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
No, don't end it. She's dating the bad boy. Go with it! Be badder, have fun with it, and meet some of her friends. Those girls that don't do drugs, don't drink, don't, don't, don
t......do something. Find out what that something is.
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