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What should I do?

I'm with this guy online, been with him a year now. But I really haven't talked to him and I thought he didn't want to be with me but when I got his new number and talked to him.. I realized how much I missed him. While I was pondering over him still wanting to be with me, before talking to him on the phone, I met a guy close to me and I've been with him for about 7 months.. And I feel like I cheated. This new guy I love having him around and having some one in physical form to show to people, saying I have a boyfriend. But he's always talking about sex and stuff. Unlike the online guy... I feel like I connected with the online one more. So my question now that I've told everything else, is which to choose? A. online where we have a lot in common one day I'll meet him and hopefully have a happy life with him or B. Stay with this guy here who always thinks and wants sex and that's all we can talk about?*I don't care about sex though! I LOVE SINGING! That's basically all I care about*

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Well my dear, you may want to ask yourself which man would be willing to stay with you when he is informed that you have been with another the entire time. I would say that the man who can forgive you and is willing to work through things is the man who is worth your time. It sounds like your "real life" boyfriend is meeting your physical needs, while your online love meets your emotional needs. You need to decide what matters more to you, and pursue a relationship that can meet both those needs.

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MiniBryant	Posted Sep 16th, 2009 at 3:49PM Yea...you cheated. I would go with the online one. Or better yet....FOLLOW YOUR HEART and everything else will fall into place. Take care!!!!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
axeman66	Posted Sep 16th, 2009 at 4:13PM i can't believe i'm saying this, but i'd go with the online guy if i was in your shoes. normally, you'd think that the online one is just fantasy and you should stick the real thing, but a lack of sexual compatibility will doom a relationship more than most of us care to admit. Rated: +1Vote for this!
RRK1	Posted Sep 16th, 2009 at 4:13PM Agree with MiniBryant. What does your heart tell you? I'm old, so I can tell you that you are very young and perhaps neither of these relationships might work out. The important thing is to do what feels right to you. You've got a lot of years ahead of you. Good luck! Rated: +1Vote for this!
Africaman	Posted Sep 16th, 2009 at 4:31PM I think you should dump the boyfriend and becarful with online dating, you get emotionaly involved and you could get realy hurt. I think you should forgett about relationships and enjoy life to the fullest while you still young you only live once, love will come to you when you arnt looking Rated: +1Vote for this!
HardysFan	Posted Sep 16th, 2009 at 9:59PM well first you have to see what they say when you tell them you cheated, which i am sure won't be good, but may be willing to work through it. I would say go with the online guy. You aren't all about the sex, so fulfil your emotional needs, the rest will fall into place if it lasts and when you meet. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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