My older sister is 32, getting married for the first time, and I have no idea what to get her. I have given her many things over the years and they either get destroyed or lost. I don't mean trinkets either, I mean a complete bedroom set, a large original painting I picked up on a trip, things like that. I know that when I give her something it is hers to do as she pleases but I have finally gotten to the point that I am leery to spend a lot of money on something for her when I know it is inevitable that it will be destroyed. Money is too impersonal so what should I get her?