Resolved Question

I am still in love with this guy who I had a hookup with ended up me pregnant for 12 weeks, and went through the abortion. He said he will try to be friend with me if I i went through the abortion which i did. However, it seems that it has been too obvious to him that i have strong feeling for him still and he felt i might want more. So he once said to me that it could be hard to be friends coz of this. Although, he has been very nice to me since i was pregnant, called for hours long every few days to make sure i am ok, we visited each other's home and try to talk over things. but everytime we speak on the phone, i always end up going back to the topics about feelings and past,he always turn to avoid talk abou. He said "u cant force someone to be friend""why u talk me to like this""r u black mailing me""why i speak to u right now if i am not trying to be friend""you dont know what i want""say good night to me sophia i am tired after rugby need a shower" how can we talk nicely??

You have to talk about regular things... Friend things. Stop going into the emotional stuff and asking him those hard questions. He doesnt want to talk about any of that when he is being forced to. If you give him time to sort out his own feelings and you guys get to know eachother on a friendly-happy note, then he will be more likely to be the one to start talking about things. The more you push a touchy subject, the more you push him away! Try it..........