I find the fact that you're asking about new music and new fashions hilarious because your name is "ModernAmish".
DO what I do, go to youtube, plug in a band you like and when the screen comes up check out the suggestion bar.
I use Pandora but most of my music comes from 60's to early 00's I agree hasn't been much good music recently
www.findgoodmusic.com is extensive and easy to use :)
I use Last.fm to find bands and artists similar to the ones I already enjoy.
You mean for download or just some good bands you might like?
Well for download there are a ton of free and paid sites you could visit. What type of genres d you normally like?
I get the best music from my friends.