I find the fact that you're asking about new music and new fashions hilarious because your name is "ModernAmish".<br />
DO what I do, go to youtube, plug in a band you like and when the screen comes up check out the suggestion bar.
I use Pandora but most of my music comes from 60's to early 00's I agree hasn't been much good music recently
www.findgoodmusic.com is extensive and easy to use :)
I use Last.fm to find bands and artists similar to the ones I already enjoy.
Soundcloud and looking at the artist I love and finding related artist a lot of good music I've found has been on acciendent lol