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I simply want to be noticed. It's not like I don't notice pretty women - heck they are all over the place. What stops girls though from flirting a little bit? Through a look, a quick touch, a wink - something! Are there any females out there who can tell me more of what goes through your mind when you are out walking around, or taking a drive and a guy catches your attention. How do you let him know he's been noticed, or do you at all?
outdoorfire outdoorfire 22-25, M 11 Answers Jan 16, 2012

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I'm married so that would stop me :) Wouldn't want to give some dude the wrong idea. I do enjoy looking though. My only "flirting" would probably just me taking second looks. Or looking for a couple seconds too long.

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Thanks for an honest answer! Appreciate it.

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the fact that if they flirt, they might end up in a stall sucking me off.

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Often a little wink (as you say) invites far more attention then anything we had intended. For example, many years ago I was at a club having a good time and a girl was going around passing out bubble gum. I wound up with a bunch of it and put one of the wrapped pieces in the hoodie part of a cute guys sweatshirt. He noticed almost immediately and came to talk to me. (Good so far...) But suddenly he just leaned over and licked my neck. I was shocked. This is why I am very careful about "liitle winks" Hopefully this experience is rare!

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I hope it is too! I'd be a bit grossed out by a spontaneous neck licking!

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Well, some women flirt all the time...so perhaps you haven't met those yet.<br />
The women that i know who don't "flirt"...myself included....I think that we generally want the guy to approach us first- though not with a cheap "flirt". Whether it's with a smile, eye contact, or simply starting a conversation. Until I actually know someone, flirting feels like false advertising to me. I mean, how do I know a guy is someone I'd actually like until I actually KNOW him? What if I end up flirting with a jerk or a guy who has a girlfriend? Or worse, some guy who is a stalker or serial killer? What if I flirt with someone that I later get to know and dislike who really takes my flirts seriously?<br />
Maybe I'm a rare breed, but I know a few other women who feel this same way. We want to actually MEET someone. Become friends or get to know that guy as a person. THEN, if we find them attractive, the flirty stuff starts. And I suppose I'm old fashioned, because if a guy approaches me and starts out with obvious flirting, then I get turned off. Flirting is easy, and it's cheap. For the most part, I don't engage in it, unless it is very "light" or I am dating someone. Then I can be a heavy flirt; but in those cases, the groundwork has been laid. I know enough about the guy to know I'm attracted to him and to make sexu.al overtures, etc., and I know the feeling is mutual, so it's fun. <br />
For a guy to make the effort to come to know me- that's the thing that I'm looking for.

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I have always lacked the confidence to make the first move. When I was single the GUY had to START the flirting.

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Ugly Guys.

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if you want ladies to flirt with you then you need to give them something to flirt with, be open, funny, give them a reason to reply, closed conversation is such a killer,

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when they are married: )

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Ugly sleazy guys stop girls from 'flirting a bit.'

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