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i am 21 and when i was 19 i joined my college with lots of hope for bright future and all but i never knew i will end up like this ? being a fresher at college , i easily got into bad influence ( boozing , smoking , gals , party ) and all . At the end of the year my result came which was i FAILED. I understood that i have done the most worst thing in my life and i restarted that year again but this time i passed and promoted to 2nd year and now when i came to second year i got sick in between and had to miss many classes and as a result they kicked me out of the college. I am totally broke now. All of my friends will pass out this year and i will still be without college :( . I am planning to start my new college life from August 2013 since i wont get enrolled in any college now. I feel really bad , what to do ? I am seeing everyone around me cruel to me and i feel like i am a loser. Am i overaged ? can i still do my college.?
LearnedFromMistakes LearnedFromMistakes 18-21, M 12 Answers Nov 20, 2012 in EP

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You are defiantly not a failure. You have your entire life ahead of you. Take this time to save money to allow you to have extra money in college. You can still be a lawyer, or whatever you want to be by the time you are 27. Don't let the opinion of those who pull you down bother you. Go for it :-)

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I am planning to use this time to join a call centre , i am ready to do any sort of hardwork thanks a lot for inspiring me findinghanna. That really helped.

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I'm so sorry :/ Do you have any talents, something you are especially good at? I think you should build on those talents. Good luck with everything! And, you are not a failure and a loser, because you are 21 and you've realized this, and that's a huge step! :)

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You are absolutely right , i am a bit happy now and i am recovering. Yes , i love doing programming and i guess i will do good in that and i will focus more in that.
Thank you for your time.

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That's great! I'm happy for you! :) You should definitely go for it, you will do great!

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It's what you do with these setbacks that will define you as a success, or a failure. You are young enough to still come out on top, if you keep your head. You may even look back on this experience as a blessing. Good luck :o)

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exactly geoffersp , i am seeing everything as a blessing now because at this age i learned a big lesson in my life to never do any mistakes again and focus more towards my goal.
thanks for your time .

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That's the spirit! You're gonna' kick ***, dude! :o)

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Work and save for a year; talk to the career counsellor at school & do it now so you can stop feeling like a loser

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Yes Babzesq24 , i am going to find a work and support my dad for this year. Thank you for your time.

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You have wasted 3 years of your life. That is 3 years learning a load of useless nonsense. Education is there to fill your mind with rubbish. Free yourself. What do YOU really want to do with your life?

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Did you go to college?

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I got the biggest slap from my life of the mistakes i have done.
i am gonna stand up and try again.
thanks for your time tummytocker.

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A winner never quits and a quiter never wins.your own mind is leading you astray. get better friends. and quit hanging with the wrong crowd.used to be just like you till my brother had a looooong talk with me. to make me under stand.now I own three houses and stay the freak out the barrooms

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Yes clitmit. i am gonna be with good crowd from now onwards and i am happy to be with them since i learned a lesson . Thanks a lot.

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Meh you've wasted 3 so let it stop there and not be 4. You're still very young so don't feel bad. At least now you've learnt lesson. Just march on man.

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Yes the 5thapprentice , i am not gonna waste anymore time. I have learned my lesson and its time to try again.
thank you.

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We all make mistakes..theres nowhere to go but up from here. If u highly believe school is for you then do your best from now on to grad. Have a mind of your own and dont allow others to shift your form unless Its for the pos. Take your mistakes as a lesson.

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Yes , i highly believe school is for me because i dont want to mess up again at college. I am not gonna pay any heat to people who will let me down. Thanks a lot for your time vcost1

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Success is the progressive realization of a worthy Ideal. I heard that on a youtube video. You're not a failure u just have to get up and try again. If you really want to go to college do it. You have to make a goal for yourself and go for it. I don't care how many times u try and fail just keep your eye on the goal. There's a video on youtube just search 'listen.. this will change your life' watch it and understand it.

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That was really really inspiring , thanks a lot for your kind words and that amazing video share.

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