What to do? Opinions? Stories?
Okay so basically, I am so self conscience & I have no clue why! I have never found him cheating or ANYTHING to make me this way. we have been marries 2 years together 3 years. We have a daughter & I am currently pregnant again. I feel maybe its my weight gain that has me on the edge and hoping he will not leave me or cheat on me. I would never want my family to be broken but I cant help to think this over & over. EVERYTIME he is away at work, i wonder if he is really there. Every time he gets a text I want to question him (but i don't) . He isn't the same man I met or married. He is no longer very loving or affectionate towards me.. no longer compliments me like he used to & IDK what to do anymore. I want to change so that we will have a good relationship & I wont push him away but somehow my thoughts always get the best of me.
3 Answers to "What to do? Opinions? Stories?"
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hm.... Every family or some families go through moments like this of 'does he/she really like/love me? or not?' I did that a few times and still wonder today if my father really likes me just as much as he likes my brother. Seems like he always complimented on him, hung out with him, not so much me. I was always kind to him.... sometimes more than my bro, but he never seemed to love me like my mother did and still does. I'm sure things will get better. :) Best of luck to you.
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You may want to ask a professional, how to deal with these insecurities.
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Posted by amytheinvalid Mar 8th, 2013 at 3:22PM
See a therapist. This sounds like OCD. You may also have a paranoia disorder.
Second, ask the questions you need answers to.
Third, if all is lost, you break it off, not him. (Hopefully, it don't get that far.)
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