I have to say I have been married to my husband for 20 years and if he left me for a younger woman, she can have him. I wouldn't want to be any man's standby woman or second choice. You desire so much better!
I know you love him and you want him to come back. Truth is, he may not come back. You still have a life to live. Get your stuff together and live your life. I know its gonna be hard, but you have live and be that woman he fell in love with. He has to come back on his own, but who's to say that he won't leave again? My suggestion, move on and if he comes back, oh well. You deserve to be with someone who cherishes you and not someone who sees you has his fall back woman.
no, your husband is not coming home. as a matter of fact what i would do is let him stay in your house, you move out and when you move, put some dead fish in the curtain rods like in that internet tale. the 27 year old will probably leave him once she realizes that he is going to have to pay you alimony for the rest of your life.
I'm not trying to generalize, but it sounds like a mid-life crisis. I can assure you the 27 year old will quickly become bored with your husband. They are both at entirely different stages in their lives and it definately won't work out in the long run. When it blows up in his face (and it will) he will be real sorry. Just be strong and don't start any arguments with him. Continue to be cordial with him. He'll remember the way you acted when his fling with the younger woman fails and you will be the better woman regardless.
Why the hell would you want him back after such a betrayal? Grow some self respect and someone else will recognize you as perfect, just the way you are. A far better life awaits you now that hubby's gone. Let him stay gone and change the locks.
My husband is also 45 and let me tell you, if he ever left me for another woman --- younger or not--- she could keep him! Even if he did come back, he'd find the locks changed!
you don't need that idiot he'll regret this later on but hopefully by then you will have found a way better man than him that will treat you right the way you deserve
Hi I am in the same boat. My 48 year old partner of 3 years left me for a younger woman. What a shock. I also found out I was pregnant when he did this. I was sleeping with him in April and by May he was married. I was 3 months pregnant unknowingly. Got the call from this woman at 2:00 am on the morning claiming to be his wife. That is how I found out he got married. Going for my ultrasound. Tests routine for pregnancy revealed he was cheating for 4 months. I carried my son for 5 months and lost him. Devistated to hear just a year later he and his new wife, new city, new job and are expecting. It cuts like a knife. Why did he string me along when I could have invested myself in a good guy. The doctors informed me this was my first and last child. I have never been a mother. So betrayed and hurt. How do you recover and trust again?
I am a 32 year old man whose girlfriend of 2 years (42) just left for a 22 year old man. I can't see WHAT she could see in him over me. But he's young hot, and wild.
I feel like I've just stopped acting like a teenager and become an adult, and she has to leave me for someone who doesn't even run his own life? I feel more confident and capable than I ever have, and I'm hurt and insulted and angry.
One thing that I realize, though, that our relationship was broken from the start. She never wanted me to be myself, she just wanted someone hot who needed her. You're better off without him. It doesn't feel that way. Not yet. I know.
I am in the same boat. My husband is 60 and she is in her mid 20's. I am 48 how do I fight that? Do I want to?