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What to do when someone u want don't want you anymore?

The person i love broke up with me.It's really painful for me cause i wanted to stay together.Now we talk sometimes and he acts like we're good friends and never were together.I'm talking to him too cause i just can't hate him though it's so painful for me he doesn't want me anymore.
What should i do i don't know...I act like i'm already fine but my heart hearts so much...

Posted 9 months ago

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It probably feels like we are all saying the same thing. That we don't understand, but everyone who says move on here is right. CUT THE TIES, all of them. May not be easy at first, but gradualy it will get better. Say your last goodbye, even tell him not to call you again. There will be days you feel like calling but resist the urge. Have a complete overhaulk and makeover. Go out with girlfriends for fun. Get back into your old hobbies that made you feel grounded and know yourself better. Find your centre again. You will think about him now and then, but eventually with the steps you've taken towards focusing on you, you'll soon have forgotten that you have not been thinking about him and that you don't have the urge to call him. Once the hurt is gone then seeing him again if your paths ever cross again it won't be so painful and you might really see him as just a friend. Don't deprive yourself of a good chance to meet someone else who truly wants you and you want them back!

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underconstruction	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM It is sad but the most dignified thing to do is to accept it and move on. You will make your life easier this way. Rated: +1Vote for this!
rusted	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM cry move on cry do other things It might hurt bad now, it will get better. Been there. Done that. Rated: +1Vote for this!
jerrica	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM i could write a few chapters on this myself. i agree with gingercandy, you should really put some distance between him and yourself. the way you're feeling, i don't think having anything to do with him is going to help much. it would be torture to me and why put yourself through that? Rated: +1Vote for this!
ccbear08	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM You'll experience all emotions Anger, Hate , love, frustration and the fact that you probably wanna kick his backside.!! majorly .....eventually the hurt will go away and you'll get thru it like everyone else ...it's true you can mend a broken heart esp with chocolates :D as long as you stay true to yourself and know who you are, hold your head high ..! cos your worth, it and you never know what' around the corner..! chin up Rated: +1Vote for this!
Jana22	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Just cut off all ties. I know exactly how this feels, so I can tell you that time WILL heal old wounds. It won't take a day, but if you still try to get him back it will only make it harder. Let go. Rated: +1Vote for this!
void00	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Try to avoid him as much as possible. He's probably just trying to be polite but it would be better for you if he just kept out of your way. Rated: +1Vote for this!
mistyeyedlass	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Let it go. It would be hard, but it's harder to stay with someone who doesn't wanna be held on to. People change. It's an an easy thing to accept, but that's the reality of life. He's gone coz he's not good enough for you. Someone will be happy that you are no longer together. Someone better deserves you. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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