Use a mobile phone to record what others are saying, preferably with their permission.<br />
Ask them to say how this rumour has affected their opinion of you, and record that too.<br />
Play it back to her.<br />
Tell her what is true and what is exaggerated, understated, or false, <br />
and how and why, specify the evidence.<br />
Tell her how this affects your relationships with these people.<br />
Ask her if there are any things about you that she likes, admires, respects or is proud of.<br />
If so, ask her why she doesn't share some of this with others.<br />
Once you have these answers, you'll be able to figure out your next choice of action.
i feel for you. i had a mother that was a real btch that way. eventually i realized she is just because shes my mother, she is not my friend nor even good to me. i left and havent looked back.
me too-If I had a dollar for every time someone said, "but she's your 'mother'"- I wouldn't be sitting here
You realise her problem not yours and you are nothing like your mother. Pray for her, through gritted teeth at first, but find it in your heart to have compassion for her, she is desperately unhappy. Then you go and live your life on your terms and just know she is who she is and can never change, expect nothing less from her.
She isnt ur mother.. ur mistaken
I cut mine out 3 years ago- haven't looked back. Biology ain't $#!t
wow, thats like my life story<br />
i just dont talk to her anymore. her and my gma gang up on me and talk sh**. WTF right?
Karma what goes aound comes around?
my dad does this sometimes.<br />
not really bad rumours, but he tends to make fun of me when wo go to the parkets and stuff.<br />
i just take revenge.