What to do with a disrespectful adult child?
To lucyintheskywithdiamonds your advice" Kick him out? You reared him in a fashion that makes him disrespectful, and now you want to kick him out?? He's already paying for everything a parent should pay for, including his rent in his family home, and school costs. I absolutely understand his frustration. If you kick him out, you may never hear from him again. Are you OK with that outcome?"
No I would not be good with not hearing from my son again. But I did teach my son to be on his own and did not rear him to be disrespectful. He was not this way when he was younger. As he got older after high school I gave him more rope and because he didnt give me problems he was able to do more. He is an adult and I've treated him like one. I'm not going to coddle him. As far as him paying for "everything a parent should pay for" again he is an adult. When do you feel a parent should stop paying for stuff and at what age of the adult kid should the parent stop paying for them? I appreciate your response though.