What to get a guy for Valentine's Day?

Asked By: agentry816 18-21, F 3 months ago

Been kinda dating this guy for a couple of weeks now, but we're taking things slow b/c we both go to college and have a job. I'm still not really sure what I feel about him, although I know he is a really nice guy. I know he's planning something for me on Valentine's Day (a guy just doesn't ask you what your schedule's like on Thursdays specifically and what your favorite flower is without a reason.) I just don't know what to get for him. any ideas?

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Posted by Sparklefield Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:24PM

Here's what to do-
whenever you've planned to meet him, do that, and if he does something for you or gets you something, then act completely surprised.
later on in the day, give him what you got for him.
just so you wont embarass yourself by giving him something just because you think he will, i mean, what if he doesnt do anything? that'll leave you hanging.
so do your thing later.
and gift options, id say-
non personal- flowers, chocolate, wine, t shirt, mix cd, cool headphones, t shirt, whatever.
personal- watch, wallet, cuff links (if he's into dressing classy), or something for his room.
you could always set up a dinner that you've cooked for him, but judging by your info, doesnt sound like you've got the time or feelings to that extent.

however, it really doesnt matter if you dont give him anything, cause it's all about the feeling i say.
if you feel for him, make it fantastic. otherwise, no need.
plus, chivalry.
:D
luck!

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Reply by agentry816 Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:28PM

He's already admitted that he's getting me flowers, and something else (a surprise lol). He'd probably be fine if I didn't get him anything, but that just wouldn't seem fair to me. (maybe that's just b/c he holds onto some traditional values whereas I have some more modern ones? lol) But, really, Thanks for the advice! :)
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Reply by Sparklefield Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:35PM

then go ahead with PLAN A. personally, im just like you, it wouldn't seem fair to me either. :D what have you decided? you could even set up a date somewhere nice and just have fun. dinner later.
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Posted by Greeneyes21 Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:14PM

Sex and chocolates !

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Posted by IWishIUnderstood Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:14PM

cook for him if you can

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Reply by agentry816 Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:18PM

I could, but I wouldn't know what to cook. (plus, i'd have to borrow a friend's kitchen, maybe buy some pots and pans, etc. I live in a dorm with no kitchen and my friend never uses hers. That would be totally fine, though, if I had extra money lol)
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Posted by LadyBella2011 Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:14PM

Don't get him anything..

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Posted by leftvan Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:13PM

Sex vouchers... and a guarantee they'll get used!

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Posted by cantescapemylove Feb 11th, 2013 at 4:13PM

Nothing..lol

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