Get him back. Buddies can be buddies...and want him to be like buddies. Buddies were the type of guys who did things together... like ... well you know buddy things like going into bars that are geared toward sex... and all that stuff. Better get him back... out of that buddy stuff so he is back where he should be...with you as his one and only... YOU are his girl friend. That is not something to be tryfeld with... you have made a connection and you must defend that connection. Get him back do he is back with you so he can rekindle what you have with him.