I've read a lot of very sad stories on here.<br />
The first one that comes to my mind, was a story about the loss of a twin.<br />
The one that died, saved the other one by pushing him out of harms way.<br />
It tore me up, reading it.
The loss of a young husband or wife is the saddest thing I run across. I have my personal reasons why.
All stories are sad at times but in different ways. It would be hard to judge the "cry for help" agaisnt "I was asbused"