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What would be a dealbreaker for you in a relationship?

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Lack of respect....that seems to cover a multitude - a person that respects you wont lie to you, wont cheat on you, wont abuse you or treat you badly, will respect your feelings and thoughts...will want you to be the best person you can be.
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Posted Oct 11th, 2008 at 6:04PM
Lying....
doesn't matter what its about.
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Posted Oct 11th, 2008 at 6:04PM
Abuse. Physical or mental.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
she's still married - or she has children
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Posted Oct 12th, 2008 at 5:56PM
two timing me!
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
A very boring person
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Posted Oct 12th, 2008 at 5:56PM
Cheating, lying, abuse, disrespect, and being too controlling or confining.
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Posted Oct 12th, 2008 at 5:56PM
Basically the same things as Studentoflife said....but Ill also add neglect and lack of concern for my thoughts, feelings, desires, needs, etc. (So Id have to say selfishness or self-centeredness).
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Posted Oct 12th, 2008 at 5:57PM
Lack of self-worth and self-respect.
Lack of communication.
No desire to improve the relationship.
Lack of respect for me.
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Posted Oct 12th, 2008 at 5:58PM
Guys that say they wont consider dating a woman with childrren or will only put up with their partner sleeping with another man if they can watch and get their rocks off about it...
Which means that some of the guys that have actually replied to this question would definently be in that catagory....
Guys, come on now, your women is not a possesion to lend out to other men just so you can get your own jollies & thrills from it... and also why is it okay for men to sleep around and produce kids or to leave their wife and kids & date again, yet if a women has kids from a previous relationship then she is not worthy of being your partner BUT it is okay for a man to have kids and usually dump the full responsibility with his ex wife whilst he plays part time daddy and life goes on for him... I say a single women with kids can easily weed out good and bad potential partners just by that fact alone. As a good man will still give her a chance and an unworthy one will run a mile...
You know that women may have kids but she may have been loyal to her husband for their whole relationship and be kind and funny and works hard and is not only a great mum but a wonderful partner, but some guys cant see eyond the fact that she has kids from a past relationship....sad.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
I agree with with FB. My thoughts exactly.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Bad hygiene.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Cheating or physcial abuse. Both are a big no no!!!!
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