a pamper treat ..such as nice foot massage or full day out without kids for a day :)
A time machine?
A vacation from those kids, where she can relax and be with fun adults
Seriously...I had 5 kids,and if I didn't have a responsible adult (e.g.,my mother) around to watch them once in a while, I would've gone insane. Just giving her your time would be a wonderful gift.
A week holiday somewhere far without the kids
Babysit the kids for a weekend, and a gift card to her favorite places to shop, or a nice massage and a book, or her favorite movie rentals, or anything she likes to do for leisure.
1. A clock or portrait to hang in the house
2. A gift card
A babysitter and a night out lol
I am sorry to say this but , birth control.
I Respect you
I can understand Its not Easy
A gift card to walmart.
Maybe a spa day or manicure (if she likes that kind of thing). A gift certificate comes to mind....the type of store depends on whether she actually needs a little financial help or not. If there aren't things that she actually needs for the kids, then maybe to a store where she would have to buy something for herself. Single moms are notorious for neglecting their own needs in favor of what the kids need. Especially if she has 4. Good night nurse!
An evening off. Someone she trusts babysitting the kids, another person taking her out for a movie or a good meal at a restaurant. ;)
A coupon for a Tubal ligation...JK
Spa treatment seems appropriate.
4 what? age? children? How about a backscratcher?
A babysitter. And a boyfriend!
A day at the spa.