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What would you answer if your bf asks you "How come we had sex on our first date? "

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Asked By: diaphane 26-30, F  6 months ago

We are both quite traditional and I kind of let him know that I dont sleep around...Well, what do you know? On our first date, I was on the edge and did not know how to act when the moment came for me to decide if I wanted to go to his place but "do nothing" or if every one should go their ways and he would have walked me till the doorstep. I took his offer and we just went to his place..We are dating now, 3 months and I am so happy with him and he is so wonderful. But last night after dinner with some friends when we were alone he popped out this question and I was puzzled. I confess that I thought about it to myself: what if he was not that great person that I am discovering and...just someone else who was not worth it?On our first date, I wanted to tell my now-bf to basically leave me alone because he gave me the impression of a playboy and I am not interested in that kind of relationship(one night stand). And I did the opposite...

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    KuyaLeo - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by KuyaLeo Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:37AM

    Looks like you acted on your urges, which is what you should have done... Tradition is silly, it's 2012 and time is really precious... never regret what you did.... for me... I would look him in the eye and tell him that it was mutual, and in the heat of the moment... and I would tell him that it wouldn't matter whether it was the first date or the fiftieth date because the time was right and the feelings were right

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  1. diaphane - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by diaphane Nov 9th, 2012 at 3:00AM

    When I mean traditional, I mean we are quite careful with each other. I have never met someone so respectful and sweet. That night he told me that if i decided to go, nothing would happen. Well, I cant say there was nothing, there was something. I have replied yesterday, saying generally that I kind of believed him when he said that he would not touch me. He replied with "Do you believe what everyone says to you?" Again, I changed the subject, and blamed the sangria and the late hour in order to avoid the answer to this introspective question.

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  2. KuyaLeo - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by KuyaLeo Nov 9th, 2012 at 3:43AM

    You're quite the philosophical type, aren't you? *smile*

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  1. Manyolo - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Manyolo Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:30PM

    Sex has no time !

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  2. solocelt - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by solocelt Nov 9th, 2012 at 8:39AM

    I'd know she was talking to someone else.

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  3. UrineBubbles - 26-30 years old

    Posted by UrineBubbles Nov 9th, 2012 at 2:50AM

    I would wonder when I got a boyfriend. O_O

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