What would you do, anything,nothing?

Hubby's brother just asked him to bring a "package" to him. Knowing my hubby is on probation for embezzling money to support a coke habit.Hubby told him no 3 times. When I asked what his brother wanted ,as it's the only time he calls, hubby told me and I was very angry. I feel I am justified in being angry at his brother, as it shows how little concern he has for his brother. Hubby told me it wasn't my concern......is it? But hubby did tell his brother NO, and was honest with me when he got off phone which is new to me. Would it be wrong of me to say something to his brother? Doesn't matter what he thinks about me, his family already blames me for everything hubby has done. So I am already a bitch. What would you do? NO, I am not asking if I should leave hubby!! Just if I should say something to his piece of crap brother, who lets his wife support him, is an alcoholic and drug user. And NO there is not a package swap scheduled, I heard the phone call.

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Leave it alone. You've done all you can do. I can understand your anger however this is your husbands battle to fight.
Be there to support him, not live his life for him.

but most of all....
Your husband DID THE RIGHT THING!!! Celebrate that with him.

After a while, the brother will find someone else to be his mule.

Posted 6 months ago

Other 5 Answers to What would you do, anything,nothing?

anonymud	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 2:59PM I'd call his PaRole Officer. Rated: +2Vote for this!
alightinthedarkne ss	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 2:59PM yeah I'm with ALL of the above! I'd get out of that situation and fast before they drag you down with them! Do you have children? If you do consider what this will do to them. This is NO environment to raise a child in! Rated: +2Vote for this!
woodinhouse	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 6:02PM your husband is your concern, and I would make an anonomous call and tell somebody about the package swap, save your faMILY EVEN IF IT MEANS PUTTING SOMEONE IN JAIL, i rather jail then dead from drug overdose or kill by cop Rated: +1Vote for this!
sinnamon76	Posted May 24th, 2009 at 4:26AM AA teaches that we must abstain from relationships with those in active addiction. His brother is an active user, therefore he must stay away from his brother. Besides, they say: "If you hang around a barber shop long enough, you ARE gonna get a haircut!" Rated: +1Vote for this!
JADEDRUCKUS	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 5:48PM IT IS YOUR CONCERN, HE IS YOUR HUSBAND...IF HE DOES GO THROUGH WITH THIS ACT THEN I WOULD TAKE sharingiscaring's ADVICE...IF HE IS GOING TO PUT YOU AND HIS FUTURE ON THE CHOPPING BLOCK THEN APPARENTLY YOUR RELATIONSHIP MEANS SQUAT TO HIM!!..HE DOESN'T DESERVE TO HAVE A FAMILY IF HE DOES THIS! [Delete] Rated: +1Vote for this!

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