If they say you have to then you've got no choice..When one of my pals was unplugged his parents had us all come in and say our goodbyes beforehand then played his favourite tunes and had his family there talking to him as they switched the machines off and he passed..Its what I'd want if I was in that position,if there was any cognative function still there,he must have felt very loved...
I'll cry and make myself sick
You "have" to? He is suggesting? Or he is going to?
Less a valid explanation where I was allowed to make an informed decision my answer would be no!
If I loved them I would not be selfish and think that being in a coma means being alive. I would also be close enough to them to know if they wished to be unplugged or not and the choice is about them.....not me