What would you do if you had intrusted one person with your deepest,darkest secret and found out they told?

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I would confront them, tell them how I feel and never trust them with another secret.

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LilAnnie	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 7:35PM I'd hit myself upside my head for ignoring a fact of life I learned a long time ago. Since no one is perfect, don't have unrealistic expectations. There is no such thing as a totally trustworthy person. Rated: +3Vote for this!
Fourandahalfdays	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 1:34AM I'd be pissed. Rated: +2Vote for this!
BellaFairy	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 1:34AM I wouldn't trust him or her anymore. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Moran1988	Posted Jun 12th, 2009 at 11:35PM 1- Never trust them again 2- Get revenge if possible. 3- Evaluate how naive was I. Was there a warning sign I missed? Did I overestimate this person? Am I too lonely? Do I need new friends? Rated: +1Vote for this!
Shoreboy	Posted Jun 12th, 2009 at 11:45PM Depended upon how deep and dark. If your secret was that you had badly injured or killed someone I would applaud them as being a 'good citizen'. If they betrayed a trusted secret that wasn't of that type you should re-evaluate your friendship with them and be more careful in the future with whom you share that sensitive a secret. Rated: +1Vote for this!
ManmaBubbyFatty	Posted Jun 12th, 2009 at 11:53PM It's your secret not theirs, and the accuracy of that secret is of relevance to you not them. Find a way to move on from it. At the end of the day you can always deny it and you're the only one who will know the real truth. Rated: +1Vote for this!
aileengein	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 12:05AM I would be in a whole shtload of trouble! After I got myself out of said trouble, then they would be in a whole shtload of trouble....worse trouble than mine...but then again, I never tell anyone anything important, because you can't trust anyone at all. Rated: +1Vote for this!
edenray	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 12:16AM i would feel deeply betrayed. not knowing what the secret was/is, in some cases having things come up and out sometime (and i do mean sometimes) can free the person who's carrying it - meaning you not the louse that betrayed you. i hope you are okay and can find someone trustworthly enough of your emotions and secrets. Rated: +1Vote for this!
EndlessMeghan	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 1:51AM That's why you pinky-swear. -Endless Rated: +1Vote for this!
void00	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 2:23AM I'd blame myself for trusting them. Rated: +1Vote for this!
SeriouslySappy	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 8:21AM I wouldn't tell them anything else. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Artisina	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 6:17PM I did that in the 10th grade. I told my best friend my darkest secret at the time and she told everyone. I learned 2 things. Never do anything that you have to lie about and don't tell anyone anything that you wouldn't want the world to know. She hurt me badly, but I learned from it. Rated: +1Vote for this!
aaangie	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 6:37PM (eventually) i'd realise that once i told a secret, then its 'public'. as in i dont have full ownership of it any more. people are people and some folk just dont see the importance of keeping a promise. so i just let them go. i dont want to be around people who i cant trust to talk to! Rated: +1Vote for this!
rdt	Posted Jun 13th, 2009 at 11:15PM I would be hurt and not consider them a friend. I just experienced this recently myself. At first I was madder than hell....then I felt hurt. Take it from one who know...the ONLY person you can trust is yourself. Rated: +1Vote for this!
heavyduty1	Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 7:54AM You should learn from this experience that you should keep your deep, dark secrets to yourself. If you feel that you must discuss your affairs with someone to solicit their advice, you should not expect them to keep your conversations to themselves. Like you, perhaps they are inclined to discuss issues with their 'mentors'. Rated: +1Vote for this!
pukirahe	Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 8:55AM Be careful about this matter: anything known by two persons, will be known by the whole world. If it is a secret, it will become known more quickly. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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