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What would you do if you wanted to break up with your boyfriend, but he tells you he would kill himself?

And he's serious about it, it's not just a threat or guilt trip.

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    rodrwill1 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by rodrwill1 1 Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:49PM

    You can't stop someone who is adamant about ending their life, nor should you feel guilty. Do you really want someone like that in your life? You have no obligation to stay in an unhealthy mutually destructive relationship.

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24 Answers to "What would you do if you wanted to break up with your boyfriend, but he tells you he would kill himself?"

  1. hippnk - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by hippnk Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:48PM

    break up with him......what he does after is his problem....he is trying emotional blackmail.....never give into blackmail

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  2. TheRQCKSTARZHquSeNHDZQ3 - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by TheRQCKSTARZHquSeNHDZQ3 Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:56PM

    Right on the money!

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  3. Cuddlytoy - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Cuddlytoy Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:51PM

    I've had this problem in the past and I still left them. They're still alive and kicking, so don't give in to emotional blackmail.

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  4. ImmaSlender - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by ImmaSlender Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:46PM

    Get him some help.

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  5. Disparu - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by Disparu Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:47PM

    I agree with my buddy up here, get him some help.

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  6. MadamElle - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by MadamElle Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:47PM

    Help him. Obviously.

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  7. jettys - 56-60 years old

    Posted by jettys Jan 26th, 2013 at 2:03PM

    It's his choice!
    You could just tell his family& or friends-(mabe doctor or teachers) so any or all of them could watch out for him! In fact-When I think about it--Telling others is the best ideal-Just before you split up with him!

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  8. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:55PM

    i've heard that happens a lot.
    i wouldn't let it stop me.

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  9. MissShine - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by MissShine Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:52PM

    That's creepy . Id inform his closest family and friends to keep an eye on him .... but i would still break up with him

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  10. tameheart - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by tameheart Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:52PM

    I still brake up with him. I don't like to be threatened by anybody

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  11. TheRQCKSTARZHquSeNHDZQ3 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by TheRQCKSTARZHquSeNHDZQ3 Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:51PM

    Well that's THAT selfish dirtbag's problem, don't stay where you're not happy.. & again, watta selfish dirtbag

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  12. Bitto69 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Bitto69 Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:51PM

    The more reason you should break up with him. If you're good with his family, talk to one of them right after you break up. If he kills himself, which I doubt he would, then it's not on your conscience.

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  13. Messyah - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Messyah Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:50PM

    Call his bluff. Emotional blackmailers are too weak to commit suicide

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  14. Confusedlo20 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Confusedlo20 Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:49PM

    get him help,tell his family, tell cops , hospital anyone just make sure yku do before he does something you will both regret

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  15. Babydoll42 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Babydoll42 Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:49PM

    Tell his family and/or friends of his threats...and then do what is right for you...you are not responsible for his feelings or his reactions....he is

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  16. pinkjade1 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by pinkjade1 Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:49PM

    You can't put his feelings above your own. I doubt he will actually go through with suicide but if he does ...oh well? lol I'm cold huh.

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  17. hajues - 18-21 years old

    Posted by hajues Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:49PM

    i would put a spell on him and make him forget that he ever dated you. then i would put a spell on him and another girl that likes him and have them start dating. don't you just love true magick?

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  18. thelastpanda - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by thelastpanda Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:49PM

    If I could do that, I definitely would.

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  19. hajues - 18-21 years old

    Reply by hajues Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:52PM

    you can... you just need to know how. here is a good website to teach you how...magic-spells-and-potions.com/

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  20. Jasec - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Jasec Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:48PM

    yup...he needs help......but dont let how he feels be a trap for you....if your not happy in the relation you should go, advise the people around him what he said so he would find someone to talk to

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  21. Unlearn - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Unlearn Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:48PM

    grow a heart.

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  22. RodneyTrotter - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by RodneyTrotter Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:48PM

    I'd wonder what the hell I was doing in my sleep!

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  23. Xxxshanxxx - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by Xxxshanxxx Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:48PM

    Tell his family and break up with him when someone else can be round him xxx

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