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What would you do if your husband stayed up late to watch adult movies alone instead of making love to you?

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  1. niNa8mOdigli - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by niNa8mOdigli Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:49AM

    watch the movies with him and then... :P

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  2. LoneAlpha - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LoneAlpha Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:51AM

    You my kinda gurl :P

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  3. ShellyHeartAche - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ShellyHeartAche Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:55AM

    Tried that and he got this weird wacky look that wasnt attractive at all... and that was that.

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  4. SpiritOfTheRabbit - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by SpiritOfTheRabbit Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:38AM

    I'd leave. I'm done wasting my time on people who can't spare their time for me and my needs. Hope you do the same.

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  5. shelly09 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by shelly09 Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:33AM

    Leave him and find someone who would rather spend time with you no the tv

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  6. LoneAlpha - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by LoneAlpha Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:32AM

    Go sit next to him and watch them until you both started getting it on/...

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  7. LoneAlpha - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LoneAlpha Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:42AM

    Ill never understand why women think that All men are attached to these women on video. There is no reason for any woman to feel insecure about sex on video. Its made to seem perfect, but its far from it.

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  8. ShellyHeartAche - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ShellyHeartAche Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:52AM

    I have had a pretty relaxed attitude about it for many years. Yeah guys need to bust one every now and again... meanwhile the times he comes to bed get later and later... Hmm... and poor Shelly is forced to chat with hot younger men and text them all day and talk to them on the phone in no uncertain graphic terms.. what do you make of that?

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  9. bristow1 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by bristow1 Jun 4th, 2012 at 3:12AM

    watch em with him and get horny together!!

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  10. FallenAngelWOOT - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by FallenAngelWOOT Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:48AM

    video & youtube
    no in all seriousness Id ask him about it - if it transpires its going to continue without me getting any then id tellhim our relationship was over, if its something i can fix with him id fix it

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  11. KnobbyKnees - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by KnobbyKnees Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:30AM

    With your shoulder......can't never have happened to you....

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  12. cloudedjourney - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by cloudedjourney Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:33AM

    It is one helluva shoulder. :)

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  13. ShellyHeartAche - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ShellyHeartAche Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:36AM

    aw. thanks. and thats not even by best attribute :)

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  14. countrygal54 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by countrygal54 Aug 23rd, 2012 at 6:08PM

    at least I would know that he's still interested in sex just not with me...hurts...but hey....then I can move on and not feel guilty

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  15. Darnick - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Darnick Jun 11th, 2012 at 10:07AM

    Don't feel bad its just that he wants to be aroused differently. Its a sexual intimacy everyone wants to feel it differently. It is not that he dont like you, its just that even he wants to have fun. let him have it.

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  16. Temptressempress - 31-35 years old

    Posted by Temptressempress Jun 8th, 2012 at 11:46PM

    damn!!! How many times I told you to watch **** with me???

    the real story was, when i got married to him he was like that, addicted to **** and even caught him ************ and so on...he didnt knew that **** was listed as my number ONE my addiction...but i felt bad somehow coz "why watch alone instead of watching it with me"...then got tired of talking to him about it..
    one day I downloaded ALLLLLLLLL the **** movies I wanted and downloded pictures of naked men who are my type, and lots lots of picture..he eventually saw my files when he opened my loptop and he felt soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo BADDDD and didnt talk to me for a week... I continued then I felt like im getting addicted again and I nevr been happier in my life when I engage to this again..so he said he felt so bad for seing naked guys on my wallpaper and found some folders of ****.. then I told him u didnt know really knew the real me,,, if u have the time, try checking my favorites coz thats what i wanted and not ur cheap hardcore ****....u think u can make me happy just by fu-kn me on ur hardcore way? NO...

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  17. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Jun 4th, 2012 at 8:43AM

    If he did it once in a while, I wouldn't worry. Maybe he'd like you to join him, but is too embarrassed to ask. Maybe that's his relaxing time for himself. I'd talk to him and be honest about how you feel.

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  18. bookerdana - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by bookerdana Jun 4th, 2012 at 5:30AM

    It would seem that your husband is addicted to ***********,and like all addictions the fallout isn't pretty. Perhaps there are support groups to help you,but the problem ultimately lies with him;he must face and recognize his problem. Sorry this answer is so generic,but please take care of your self,whatever you ultimately decide to do;you sound like a very caring woman.

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  19. adur2000 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by adur2000 Jun 4th, 2012 at 3:18AM

    make him a great dinner, rub his back, compliment him on something minor then get him to the bedroom, sit on his face and tell him if he doesn't give you an ****** you're going to spank his naked *** 30 times

    if he doesn't go for it, put on your best little girl voice an tell him you have been a bad girl and you need to be spanked 60 times :)

    if he goes for it, after that suck him like a girl that wants to make up for her disrespect, swallow it and thank him.

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  20. Elixirs - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Elixirs Jun 4th, 2012 at 3:01AM

    Join in - suck him off while you watch it together? Role play perhaps? maybe even make your own videos together. I would always try to join in, if you don't like it then at least you gave it a go. If there is an obvious imbalance, i.e - he literally watches adult movies day in day out, then i think you should address it, express how you feel and take it from there. At the end of the day you have wants and needs, and so does he. If you don't get what you want and need from him, and after trying, then i would move on. Life is too short, people come and go, things happen for a reason. That's my take on it, wish you all the best :-)

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  21. NBOWEN - 31-35 years old

    Posted by NBOWEN Jun 4th, 2012 at 3:00AM

    I would watch them with him. To be honest, I like to watch it more than he does! I look at it sometimes as a way to add stuff to our own experiences. Two weeks ago we went out into a corn field! We have been married for 13 years. It's been very rocky lately D/T finance stuff, but I must admit the s#x is still pretty great!

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  22. ShellyHeartAche - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ShellyHeartAche Jun 4th, 2012 at 3:12AM

    ha! well lucky for you.. my husband's private activities are not conducive to that.. he's all weird and ashamed or something. I think his mommy didnt love him enough...some weird **** like that.

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  23. juicyboy21 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by juicyboy21 Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:36AM

    bit strange, all other men would be over you in a flash

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  24. cloudedjourney - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by cloudedjourney Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:35AM

    Go straddle his lap and give him a nice deep kiss :)

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  25. ShellyHeartAche - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ShellyHeartAche Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:53AM

    yuk! in his crusty old chair?

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  26. tarquino - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by tarquino Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:33AM

    Drink yourself to death, or... make another decision.

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  27. alaskanhero09 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by alaskanhero09 Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:33AM

    That is a problem, and I can understand how you would feel. It's rather selfish of him and you should feel free to tell him how it makes you feel. That's what marriage is about - caring about each other .m

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  28. HardikDilSe - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by HardikDilSe Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:30AM

    Threaten to get an another guy if he does not put up with your wishes....

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  29. ShellyHeartAche - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ShellyHeartAche Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:36AM

    I have a guy rearing to go... why threaten and not just follow through?

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  30. HardikDilSe - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by HardikDilSe Jun 4th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    haha...lol...wouldnt't that be taking the things tooo faaar...on the other side i have no idea as to how long you putting up with this....you know for sure : )

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