What would you do in this uncertain situation?

Asked By: ThatAlien 18-21, F 3 months ago

I started talking to an ex, we went on a date early Jan, after the date we kissed. Then when school started we would hang out at lunch sometimes, and there is(or was) definitely a connection. He has given me a bracelet, and said he would draw me a picture (yet he claims he hasnt finished it and its been a while..) I drew him a picture and gave it to him and he really liked it and even went around showing it off. We're not dating because he told someone he wanted to get a car first so that he could see me more often, but honestly I dont buy that, theres something sketchy about it. Now, we barely see another because he hasn't asked to hang during lunch. When I text him, it feels different, he doesnt reply so I end up not texting him at all. I ordered him a bracelet for V day but now im regretting it. What should I do? How about with the bracelet?

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Posted by BadassQuiat Feb 9th, 2013 at 9:16AM

Can you return the bracelet? He sounds kind of flaky, like he doesn't know what he wants.

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Reply by ThatAlien Feb 9th, 2013 at 9:23AM

Yeah, he just got out of a relationship somewhat. He should be over it by now. I can't return the bracelet I got him, I got it online and its his zodiac.
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Reply by BadassQuiat Feb 9th, 2013 at 9:30AM

I guess you could hang on to it then, see if anymore happens later on.
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Posted by rlynnd32 Feb 9th, 2013 at 10:42AM

well, since i'm one who hates to live with unanswered questions, i would suggest that you suck up the fear and ask him flat out..."WTF is up? yes, his actions tell a story, but it doesn't close the door to the confusion you feel. the ONLY way to make that happen...is to ask what's up.

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Reply by ThatAlien Feb 9th, 2013 at 9:25AM

Well, see, a friend of mine pretty much already did (without my consent though) He said the whole "I dont have a car and I want to go see her if im dating her".. but you think I should still ask him? I guess I should for a straight answer
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Posted by esterbunny Feb 9th, 2013 at 9:35AM

Trust your instincts honey...if it walks and sounds like a duck...it most likely is....toss this one back!! And cancel the order!!!! Or keep it, I personally would Not give it to him...especially after the drawing thingy ...and I'm a Very giving person....its your call, just be careful, you could get burnt on this guy.

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Posted by ellemenope Feb 9th, 2013 at 9:30AM

Just return th bracelet. Let things go really slow if they are going to go somewhere. Don't focus too much on him though. Its not fair to you to waste your time simply because he is not ready/ confused/ or just messing with you.

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