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What would you have done? Am I weird for this?

My man's crazy, obsessed exwife called me tonight and started asking me questions about he and I. I simply said "(Name here), I am not going to talk to you" and I hung up.

She called him and told him how weird I was for not talking to her. AFter all, she only asked me a question.

What would you have done?

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DreamWizard	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:20PM I probably would have told her I didn't feel comfortable discussing our relationship with her and told her goodbye. Rated: +4Vote for this!
Archimonde	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:20PM I would of answered, "I. . . am. . . job!" "Excuse me?" "I. . . am. . . job!" click Rated: +3Vote for this!
EdieLush	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 10:58PM I agree with JIN! **** her! She's a crazy doucher! Rated: +2Vote for this!
CaptainHotPantsPi card	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:21PM What was she asking? Was it a personal question? Something about your guys' relationship? I would have done the same thing, it's none of her business. Exs are just the worst, and they don't even have to try very hard! Rated: +2Vote for this!
shaw8537	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:21PM Next time tell her "No habla inglés" Senorita! Rated: +2Vote for this!
ZombieKitty	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:25PM SHE is the weird one! Good for you hon! Rated: +2Vote for this!
stillgrieving	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:26PM You did the right thing, your life with her EX is really none of her business. Rated: +2Vote for this!
kessie	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 10:58PM depend on what the question was but I think you answered it safest way Rated: +2Vote for this!
softkitti	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 8:15PM I would have hung up on her and told her nothing . And each time she called she would be on the other side of a dial tone. She would eventually get the message . Rated: +2Vote for this!
unicorn59	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 8:55PM You did exactly what you should have....I hope that your guy backed you up, and didn't answer her questions, after you refused to.....she'll play on that..... She's stepping over a boundary, by asking you anything....you owe her nothing.....you were never in a relationship with her.....Even if your she and your guy have kids....you don't have to be her friend.....they should be civil, and discuss only the children....otherwise, there'll be trouble.....Good luck! Rated: +2Vote for this!
luckypickle	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:14PM I would have done the same thing. He needs to tell her to back off. You shouldn't have to deal with that. Rated: +1Vote for this!
CrystalClear1	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:16PM Same thing but I would have added please don't call here you need to move on. If he has kids with the psycho than you have to be cordial but personal questions are none of her business. I would say" That's non of your business"than ask "why are do you ask" Good luck it sounds horrible and I 'm sorry that's going on. Rated: +1Vote for this!
SeleneDePompadour	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:18PM I would have said stay to f*ck away from my man and hung u on her. ^_^.... I've done something very close to that before. Rated: +1Vote for this!
2Emotional	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:19PM I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from cursing her out. What right does she have to ask you about your relationship with her ex? I don't think you're at all weird for hanging up on her. Rated: +1Vote for this!
kentel	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:25PM I would have stuck it in her pooper. Rated: +1Vote for this!
sstmofadwn	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:25PM I would have said hold on.. and then came back with some weird accent or talking in fake spanish xD Rated: +1Vote for this!
Jujalee	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 7:32PM I would have said.... "kol kharraaaa sharmouta !!!!" click lol no..maybe " Hola? Como estas? No essspeak the english. No soup for you." Rated: +1Vote for this!
SummerWind18	Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 11:02PM the same thing as you, except, I would've said, "None of your business" and if she kept pressing me, say, "you don't deserve to ****** know, move on, you're being pathetic"(I would only be that harsh if she was being REALLY nosy of course!) I sure wouldn't hang up til I made sure she knew EXACTLY what i thought about this calling of me by her, and let her know it better not happen again. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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