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What would you think if you met a woman who use to be a man ? Be honest.

I am male but because of a severe hormone disorder that i was diagnosed with 4 years ago i am now trying to live my life as a woman. I have had a fair bit of abuse and lost a lot of so called friends and family because of my condition. So i want to know how a lot of you think regarding this. Would you give me a chance and get to know me ?? or would you judge me because im not the so called norm ?? please be honest, im not easily offended. xx

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  1. SunniL - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by SunniL Jun 29th, 2012 at 5:19AM

    Would not bother me in the least. I would probably want to ask you 20 thousand questions though! I figure how each person wants to live is their choice. Who am I to judge? Gay, Straight, Trans, Bi, etc, none of it bothers me. What bothers me is IGNORANCE! Enjoy your life and don't let what others think guide your happiness.

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  2. freeandeasyo - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by freeandeasyo Jun 29th, 2012 at 3:49AM

    How to answer you? When I think of nature, what is natural, I have difficulty with homosexuality/transexuality.
    At 61, you might think I'm too old for it, but I am still active sexually, just not as much as I used to be., and I'm more reflective on how small an importance the sexual act is in terms of the rest of life. I wonder why, as a society, we exercise such a high rate of interest in sex.
    More to the point of your question, I have had very dear friends who are gay, and one of my warmest friends now is a lesbian woman. I won't generalze, but the friends I have had who are gay have often seemed to be much better 'people' than many others I have known.
    And, getting to your question, it might take me an hour or so to become comfortable with you as a transexual, but if you're a good hearted person I would probably come to like and respect you. Your 'sexual configuration' would become unimportant.
    To be honest, I didn't want to watch that recent beauty contest in which a transexual person was competing. I've never watched beauty pageants in my life, and never really think of them, but it struck me that I consciously decided not to watch this one. I was definitely thinking of transexuality in a negative way. But your asking the question made me think of it with a bit more clarity.
    Of course, the next part of your question would be about a man's willingness to become involved with a transexual woman. I'm not feeling so comfortable with the idea that I'll say yes I would be willing, but I've learned that human relationships are complex things, so I shouldn't say never. On the other hand, I have absolutely no interest in gay men, so why would I consider someone who is a transexual woman to be different, even though the 'parts' have been adjusted. Maybe that would be just it - the parts have been adjusted, making it possible for me to be more open to the idea.

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  3. SpiritOfTheRabbit - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by SpiritOfTheRabbit Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:18PM

    I wouldn't think of you any differently than anyone else.
    I haven't met any MTF trans people, but I have known plenty of FTM trans people, and it's no big deal- they are people just like everyone.

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  4. GREGG2012 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by GREGG2012 Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:28PM

    Just my opinion, NOT judgement, condemnation, or criticism!! God made you what you were/are for a reason and I highly doubt it meant changing your gender. Sorry, I just don't buy it. I ran into these "He/She's" when I was visiting Thailand back in the 80's and it was truly revolting to find out from a fellow sailor while "It" was still sitting next to me in a darkened bar/club!! We all alike are sinners, but we don't all sin alike! Seek God!! He and ONLY He can calm your restless heart!

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  5. winstonwelles - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by winstonwelles Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:36PM

    How the **** is that "not condemnation"? TPeople like you make me hate Christians. What, you read a book and it gives you the right to talk to someone like that? Try judging yourself for a change, I know I am.

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  6. GREGG2012 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by GREGG2012 Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:41PM

    Opinions are just like butt-holes! Everybody's got them and they ALL stink!

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  7. ecpc - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by ecpc Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:18PM

    I'll take any kind of friend i can get if they are a good friend..
    Gender issues are not a worry to me...

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  8. jatpack3 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by jatpack3 Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:15PM

    Those are some big boobs.

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  9. orangename - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by orangename Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:21PM

    i know a lot of people confuse with their gender. in this age, i dont care where they came from as long as theyre happy with the choices they ve made and life in the present, not the past.honestly many of us probably wonder how our life woulda been different if we were the opposite gender.in my book, people s private life should be their own buisiness, and that means sexual prefference, gender identity, and everything concerning why they rather wear a dress than a tuxedo, or the other way around.

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  10. SaintMaj - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by SaintMaj Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:16PM

    I honestly don't know.I don't approve homosexualism,but your case is something completely different.
    What I know that I wouldn't judge you or make fun of you.In fact,I think that in cases like that I would be very supportive.

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  11. invisiblonde - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by invisiblonde Jun 29th, 2012 at 9:02PM

    Wow! Maybe a new friend! I would, as SunniL said above, feel like asking you all kinds of stuff about yourself. I can be intensely private in the real world, so I might be inhibited about it at first, but I would be so interested in understanding who you are and how you got to who and where you are today.

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  12. BrighterDaze - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by BrighterDaze Jun 29th, 2012 at 5:05PM

    hi, i find you very interesting want to be my friend? i'm sorry you had to go through that, but if you need a friend im here.

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  13. XXXyellowbirdXXX - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by XXXyellowbirdXXX Jun 29th, 2012 at 4:39PM

    I wouldnt mind it in the least bit you are more than your sexuality
    You are a person with feelings just trying to live your life the best way you know how By doing what feels right .... And that makes you brave

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  14. maninconn - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by maninconn Jun 29th, 2012 at 4:19PM

    I'd be concerned for your well being and health. It isn't an easy thing you are going through. If you were close to me, I'd have your back all the way.

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  15. YourImaginaryFriend - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by YourImaginaryFriend Jun 29th, 2012 at 12:46PM

    I would be incredibley curious. So you decided to live as a woman because of a disorder? Not because you feel female in your heart?

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  16. notsure1977 - 31-35 years old

    Reply by notsure1977 Jul 1st, 2012 at 12:07PM

    I really do not mind people being curious of fascinated, i get like that about it all as well some times, i dont mind questions and people trying to understand me, most people that give me that chance will hopefully see im a normal person and very caring and loving and loyal and all that. To answer your question yes i do feel i need to live as a woman, i did not want it :( but i am starting to feel comfortable being this way :)

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  17. Lucinnda - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Lucinnda Jun 29th, 2012 at 7:24AM

    per your request, i'll be very honest. i've met many men who are trying to live as women. most are fine human beings. some, though, tell me really icky stories about how they've treated women in their lives, and maintain a resentment against women. also, some really can't talk about any subject at all without turning the topic to their gender issues (even when they belong to support groups where they presumably have ample opportunity to discuss such things), and it gets very boring after awhile.

    but if you treat other people well, and can include their concerns and interests in your conversation, then i think you'd be a fine friend to have.

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  18. FattyBumppo - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by FattyBumppo Jun 29th, 2012 at 4:52AM

    I know a woman who used to be a man, very very fleetingly. She didn't have a disorder, she just wanted to be a woman so she became one. Changed her driver's license, went and got surgery...
    I don't know anyone who refers to her with anything but female pronouns and she has a boyfriend. I think. Last I heard anyway. She contributes a lot to her community and she is universally respected. I'm not close to her so I don't know if she has problems with anyone, but from where I'm sitting it looks like she is fully accepted as a woman.

    So... I used to be a hairless, pimpled dork, grew up and now I'm just a dork, lol. If you're a woman now you're woman now, as far as I'm concerned.

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  19. weewass - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by weewass Jun 29th, 2012 at 4:43AM

    To be honest I think I would always think of the person as male ,no matter what had been done surgiclly or otherwise to enhance the profile.

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  20. hopefullyhumble - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by hopefullyhumble Jun 29th, 2012 at 2:54AM

    There was a he/she as we called them, in my work place once. I did not know them at all, really, but it was confusing just to think about. I acknowledge the fact that I need to know more about this, or at least that I need to get to know people regardless of what they might be/have been or anything else.

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  21. Unique4real - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Unique4real Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:26PM

    Why anyone misjudge you for something you weren't the reason of change your gender for, and what a hell do i feel or even think of you different for having or changing your gender cos of some disorder of Hormone as i am not here to judge , i am here to help. sorry for knowing that you were abused a lot and been mistreated but know that we all here to help you out ad to make you feel better. Never feel shame of anything and just be yourself.

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  22. Sarah619 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Sarah619 Jun 28th, 2012 at 12:17PM

    I wouldn't care...would be nice to get to know you. :)

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  23. lonelyrangermark - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by lonelyrangermark Aug 23rd, 2012 at 6:54PM

    If I were a straight man I would surely fancy you because you seem to be very sexy - based on your pic. But then again, your genitalia would matter I guess... because let's face it, even if you look like a beautiful woman it would really find it off-putting to find a penis down there. I believe most straight men might have a problem with this, since they are really into women genitalia... However, if you had an operation and adjusted your body to the way you look- completely female- I do not think your past would be an obstacle. There is also a point to consider: would this man want to have a long term relationship with you? Will he want to have children? That might get in the way. I hope it turns out well and you find a gorgeous man to be with in no time! Keep looking good :)

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