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What's better a friend with benefits or a boyfriend/girlfriend?

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    cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly 1 Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:34PM

    FWB ends in tears. bf/gf can end well but still has crying potential.

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  1. youneeda - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by youneeda Dec 14th, 2012 at 3:14PM

    I would say the bf/gf thing 'ends in tears'. FWB, if acknowledged, shouldn't involve tears....

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  2. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by cpgnatly Dec 14th, 2012 at 3:18PM

    Sex involves a spiritual connection that will spill over into the emotional realm. I never met someone who has done both that said they regretted the relationship, but they all regretted the FWB on some level.

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12 Answers to "What's better a friend with benefits or a boyfriend/girlfriend?"

  1. latitudepine - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by latitudepine Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:58PM

    It all depends on your situation and commitment ability.

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  2. holdfirm - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by holdfirm Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:28PM

    that depends on so many factors... but aa friend with benefits comes in handy so often lol

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  3. Crazie199 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Crazie199 Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:31PM

    What kind of factors?

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  4. holdfirm - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by holdfirm Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:38PM

    one is whether you want attachment of a relationship and all that goes with it, or wether you just want the use of a body when you want or feel the need. I must admit I am a friend with benifits

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  5. queenfishdee - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by queenfishdee Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:27PM

    Friend with benefits all the way.

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  6. sweettaco - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by sweettaco Jan 27th, 2013 at 3:51PM

    I would choose a horny girlfriend with benefits!

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  7. clintonbill - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by clintonbill Dec 14th, 2012 at 3:41PM

    Both for me !

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  8. youneeda - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by youneeda Dec 14th, 2012 at 3:17PM

    In general, bf/gf is " better". And, at your young age I would say that is a better way to go.
    In lieu of that though, and for, let's say, more experienced folks , FWB is
    pleasurable !

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  9. phortwonni - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by phortwonni Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:58PM

    I had FWB once. He was my exboyfriends best friend. We fcked around for a couple months, and when I lost interest I stopped seeing him. He bugged me to hang out/spend the night but we had both agreed in the beginning that we'd keep it secret and it wouldn't result in dating (it was mostly by his choice). In the end it was me who stopped seeing him. I had no love from him, just sex. It was fun, we were great friends, but now we're not. A bf/gf can also ruin a friendship but it can at the same time create something more loving and beautiful, if that's what you want. Be sure to be safe and love yourself whichever choice you make. Your esteem can be fragile and it is pretty necessary to have that intact for any sort of relationship.

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  10. VincentDeSaul - 26-30 years old

    Posted by VincentDeSaul Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:35PM

    FWB never worked for me, i found women always want to get more serious with me,but i didnt want that,and it always ended acrimoniously ,like a relationship. That a while ago though.

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  11. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lessthanhero Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:31PM

    Do you want commitment, or something you dont have to think about? A: get a bf. B: get an fwb. But speaking from experience, if you choose B, try not to catch any feelings because guys hear you want a **** buddy, don't expect them to care beyond that. Choose wisely to avoid getting your feelings hurt.

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  12. Daddeyk - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Daddeyk Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:28PM

    Depends on what it is you are looking for. At your age, I would FWB for sure. You are too young to even think about not experiencing life!

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  13. tenente - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by tenente Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:27PM

    depends :D does commitment scare you?

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  14. Crazie199 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Crazie199 Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:30PM

    It doesn't scare me it's just that there's no good guys out there

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  15. tenente - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by tenente Dec 14th, 2012 at 2:34PM

    there are good people out there :D don't lose hope!

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