Don't make someone your priority if they're treating you like an afterthought.
Yes.... that's very true.
Wow! Bijoux - that's so spooky. See what I just posted before I spotted this! xx
Yours is the actual quote. I paraphrased, lol ! Great minds think alike. ;)
I'm going to copy and paste this into my life lessons text file.
Wear a Damn Condom
Not all the time?
GOODYEAR brand Never breaks ;-)
No, the GoodYear ones are known to break down after 30,000 miles, and need rotating every 6,000. ; )
Best answer right here. Absolute best answer.
Beginning to agree.
you too, j?? i thought you were happy too :(
Date your Computer
Always select a date that you wouldnt be embarassed to introduce to friends and family. Select a date with the question in the back of your mind, Is it possible that I would marry this person to spend my life with? If your answer is a flat out, definate NO, then dont bother to date them. If your answer is, POSSIBLY, then you'll have to date them to find out more. If your answer is a definate YES, then you are not seriously interested in the important things that make a relationship work.
There's only two ending to every relationship: 1. married
2. Break up
I'd like to add, as a divorced woman of many years, I ask myself, "Would I EVER want to see this person naked?" Whether they are someone I could introduce to my family and friends is secondary to that question, especially since I have no intention of remarrying but would like a long term relationship.
Correction, some people are rather happy not getting married and having a long relationship regardless. Eg. Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell
Of course there are exceptions to the rule, there always are, but those exceptions are a rarityy...and those exceptions that work as well Goldie & Kurt Russell are even more of a rarity.
Well for those who prefer long-term relationship, then there's only one ending to the relationship:
1. Break up
Or with a small percentage chance, 2. Left to die
Be yourself and be honest. Avoid game playing.
yea, if you want to be single for the rest of your life
If we can't be ourselves when we date, something is terribly terribly wrong.
Just ask yourself "could you see yourself holding their hand when you're 80?"
No but I can see myself butt secksing them at 80, my droopy old balls slapping into their behind.
Act like you are confident even when you aren't. If you pretend well enough that you're confident and secure and you're chill and unworried and not concerned with this whole dating thing, then people will believe you and they'll treat you like you're that way. And when people treat you that way, it makes you actually feel that way, and you're no longer faking it, you really ARE confident and secure and stuff.
Yup. Fake it 'till you make it :P
Normally I don't like people faking things about themselves but with confidence and self doubt and stuff, I think it's ok because when you fake it, if you really try, you can make it a reality.
If she is talking too much put your **** in her mouth
That is awful advice. Try that on me, or some of the girls I know, and you'll lose your **** to a blade pretty quickly.
:) A women's feelings to that post summed up perfectly.
Just try it. I ******* dare you. See what happens.
Maybe you'll end up with a slap round your face, or get maced.
Maybe they'll go for it for whatever reason, and you can sleep peacefully at night knowing your a ******* **** faced dickhead.
Maybe you'll wake up the next morning face-to-face with her 3 older, much tougher brothers, who have all spent years practising karate, and can knock you out in one punch.
Who knows? But there is one thing for sure; any woman who knows this is how you deal with women will spit on you as you walk down the streets.
That's an incredibly good way to either lose her forever OR have her bite it off!
My point exactly.
Women suck soooo bad, learn how to handle a joke and not take it so literally
We would. Except for one thing: many men are still living in the old days, and are still sexist pigs. Many treat women like absolute ****, and just a **** instead of an actual person. Its idiotic comments like Based4ever that **** us off, because that still happens. Men think they can do that, but they cant. Have you heard all the stuff going on in less-developed countries? Like burying a women to their neck and stoning them to death for cheating? Men are still sexist. Until it stops, we will continue to be pissed off and offended at each sexist joke.
Never lose your self respect.
Keep the relationship balanced between both people. One person shouldn't have to put more effort than another because a relationship always involves two people, not one. If it's only one person putting in the effort, then it's not much of a relationship.
Don't try so hard. It's a moment where you're not only letting the person get to know who you are but also for you to see if there's potential in the person you chose to go on the date with. But at the same time, be open and have fun! Don't put so much pressure on the whole thing, focus on the moment and not "can this guy/girl be my husband/wife". That's too much for a first date IMO.
"Letting someone get to know you" is bullshit. Make them want to know you.
I love the above response becos after a miserable break-up I gave up dating after many months of heartache I decided to start the dating scene all over again and this time around I have a different perspective on things compared to before.
Eat a lot of garlic before, talk about your ex the whole time then don't offer to pay the bill ;)
Screw on the 1st date.
Have an exit plan in case things go really wrong.
I don't know from experience, but I think a good romance should start with a good friendship.
You have some wisdom without the experience.
One step at a time.... <br />
Don't do something permanently stupid, just because u r temporarily tempted. <br />
Rome was not built in a day. :-)
You can't love someone if you don't love yourself .
Don't rush into anything, just do everything when you feel ready