Meet them the same way anyone else does. Online, through work, school, etc. The key is to be honest ASAP. Some will not be interested, maybe most won't. But it is better to find that out right away before getting too far into the relationship and facing rejection then. TG isn't for everyone unfortunately, but there are people out there that will love you for you! Best of luck!
I have told women, my life growing up wiv 3 big sisters. Not right away, you will be amazed how females respond to honesty in a gentleman. If they think they had the idea to dress you up one night and have their evil way with you, gets them into their lil kinky fantascy's. Try it.