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Whats the best way to help your spouse to open up about things they are keeping from you?

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    BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow 1 Jun 6th, 2012 at 12:11PM

    Waterboarding.

    .......or you could just try talking to them.

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6 Answers to "Whats the best way to help your spouse to open up about things they are keeping from you?"

  1. ahamay - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by ahamay Jun 6th, 2012 at 1:54PM

    Try not to badger them about it and give them the time they need to talk about on their own.

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  2. Fourleggedfreak - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Fourleggedfreak Jun 6th, 2012 at 12:21PM

    Don't be too demanding. It's like catching a fly in water. You can't hit it with the spoon, you have to lay the spoon next to it gently and let it fall in.

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  3. LadyHawke68 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by LadyHawke68 Jun 6th, 2012 at 12:16PM

    Hmm...good question. I once had a co-worker who was very private about her personal life. Myself and another co-worker would ask a seemingly innocent question, and she would refuse to answer. My other co-worker would pester and badger her to death,asking her over and over, questioning her asbto what the big deal was. I, on the other hand, would not mention it, and would just go on as if it didn't matter. Eventually if it came up she would end up telling me. Though I do remember she would not tell me her birthday, telling me to pick a day, which I did. But she never did tell me. Maybe just not make a big deal about it, other than that I don't know.

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  4. jeanemae - 26-30 years old

    Posted by jeanemae Jun 6th, 2012 at 12:14PM

    Let them tell you in there own time unless you think it's an emergency.

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  5. flockofturtles - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by flockofturtles Jun 6th, 2012 at 12:14PM

    Pray that He gets saved if he learns to Love God first God will guide him into doing the right thing. The truth will set you free. Sooner or later the truth will be revealed better your husband fess up before then.Or at least share the things that are bothering him.

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