I agree hands down with dreamvoyeur. Good Luck and don't forget to share the good news when you do meet him.
Sporting events, concerts....
Eharmony isn't any less dangerous, than the other dating sites....I know someone who met 2 narcissists and one perv on the site, in a one month period....you have to be very careful.....I'd recommend whatever you decide, do it in person, not over the web. It's just plain safer.....trust me, I know!
when you find the answer just let me know
Judging from your circle, I'd say it is a good thing that you seek advice from others as your judgement is very bad. But, I don't seen anyone not located in your area being of any specific help.
I've got a friend that's married to a girl he met via eHarmony. I believe that site is somewhat less creepy than the others.
The grocery store or the drug store. If you want a good quality man try volunteering for a church or non profit organization or cause, Hait relief Red Cross,fireman or police volunteers.