Today is a ME ME ME world.
people weren't afraid to give there kids a good smack when it was called for. now society is to much up everyone else's *** and people are afraid to discipline their kids in ways that are appropriate. sticking a child in front of a screen seems to be the way people cope with their kids now a days. distraction is key. therefore children are not taught right from wrong. only, gimme gimme or i wont shut up.
you do not have to hit them, that is not what i am saying. but put a kid in their place. when a 9 y/o calls his mom a *****, i think a good smack to the mouth is well deserved. when a toddler is reaching for an outlet or about to walk into the road, a smack on the but is a quick shock that makes them realize that what they are doing is wrong and that smack is a whole lot less painful then getting electrocuted or hit by a car. i personally use time outs. 1 minute for every year for their age. works well.
sorry but might is right this wat this country and all other countries are founded on
okay, so let us just give kids what they want because children are so precious? what do you suggest exactly? you seem to be able to argue against my opinion and haven't contributed you own other than saying mine is wrong.
WELL DONE!!! yay! thank you for sharing this. i loved it and i loved your points and perspectives.
I think parents were stricter with children time back.But kids today are no differnt than we were, I was no angel...haha
We didn't make excuses for bad behaviour and we didn't use pills to correct them we used discipline. Yeah and sometimes a good old fashioned spanking
who created these pills and excuses not my generation ,this is a whole other problem all together docters admit to making up fake illnesses lik restless leg sydrome to sell there products
Most of todays kids will be bad citizens - courtesy, their upbringing, pseudo individualism and fraud research.
when we were kids , if a kid failed to clear a test,
he/she would take the test again and try till he/she clears it.
Today, if a kid failed a test, then child psychologists and whole cra$p of theories
and analyses , media and other stuff is crammed into the child's head which
make the child useless.
Most live which in 'olden' days was not the case with very high infant mortality rates.
Back then, couples were married most of the time. The husband went to work, while the wife stayed home and took care of the kids. (Would work the other way round as well)
Nowadays both parents go to work to be able to afford a good life. They got no time for the kids.
Our feelings were not coddled and kids these days are so sensitive.
In the olden days we were taught to think of others, today's kids are brought up in an atmosphere of everything is okay and it's all about them and how they feel.
internet + where in the age where taboos are being slowly let go
lol wow we already have race seperation,gender seperation,culture seperation,religous seperation,now age seperation, people need to stop making large generalizations of people its the most primitive way of thinking and only promotes stagnation theres a good and a bad to everything
todays kids are mostly brats nuff said :))
Parents didn't have to be afraid to give their kids a good spanking when they were bad!
how I grew up ...
self-discipline by fear (dad's rage, god's wrath) kept me 'in-line'
respect of elders (parents, teachers, others in authority) was a 'given'
bullying, fighting, fits of anger needed to be atoned for in the confessional
parents were the hierarchy, and deserved to be treated as such
'nowadays' the views seem to be ...
do whatever, to who ever, and let the parents deal with the problems
respect no one older than yourself ... they're all idiots
bullying, fighting, fits of anger will make you newsworthy
parents are a joke and make sure you take them for all they're worth
im quite sure the generation before yours felt the same way about ''u kids''
the biggest difference is that the rapid change in the state of the art overrules the old fashion do it the hard way rules.
kids are way ahead in high tech stuff today, more than ever.
it's like when we were kids our parents told us about the birds and the bees but we knew all that years before. today our kids teach us the birds and the bees and how to run our business too.
i was learning computers without a mouse and my kid had a computer in his first grade class back then, he knew more computer science than what i did.
so whats missing? let me tell you that there's no easy way out and not enough discipline today. the most ignorant ones are the richest and their kids too.