Whats the most unforgivable thing someone has done to you?

Abused me in front of my children. He was gone for good the next day.

There is nothing I won't forgive someone for ...(not because they deserve it, but, because I don't want to carry that poison around with me, for the rest of my life)...

HOWEVER....there is one unforgettable thing....that caused me to stop loving my husband instantly....it wasn't the abuse he did to me...it wasn't the cheating, either.....but, when he told my daughter, (from my first marriage) that had just been diagnosed with cancer, that she was a "freakazoid" and a "bag of bones"...just to shut her up in a disagreement he was having with her.....THAT was the end of THAT....(he knew she was self-conscious, because her lymphnodes were enlarged in her neck (Hodgkins), and she had lost weight, also.....He was trying to hurt her.....How could anyone be THAT cold, and cruel? I feel like he doesn't deserve my love, or anything else from me, for that matter....

I haven't felt anything for him, since.....except maybe pity....but, he really doesn't deserve that, either, in my opinion.

sexually abused me and my sister and no one did anything about it

My best friend since grade school diid me so dirty. Her boyfriend asked me to sleep with him and OF COURSE I refused. I told her what had happened and she not only accused me of sleeping with him, but also spread some nasty rumors about me. She also told some of my personal secrets that only she knew. After the fact she tried to tell me that she was sorry and that she knew I hadn't done that to her. But the damage was done and I could no longer have her in my life.

Lied to me about having leaukemia....

My mother was clearly not satisifed with my decision at the
time of this event.

While I was living on my own in a small apartment the holiday were near. my mother decided to load my xmas
gift and drop them off at my front door step.

My mother invited all the family over for the holidays
and I wasn't invited to spend xmas with the family.
She left me in my small apartment with four white walls
and a Charlie Brown xmas tree.

It was probably the most *ucked up and heartbreaking
lesson to ever learned.

Abusive father. **** him I hope he died a miserable death

There have been so many that I can't choose...

One would be to "force" me to make their decision(s) mine.

The other was to pretend to be my best friend and then to stab me in the back, more than I could ever imagine anyone would even do!

Abused me mentally for a short time while telling me that she loved me.

Even though most of the smoke has cleared, it's left me suspicious and somewhat un trusting of other women.

And if she were to knock on my door right now, I don't know if I'd slam it in her face or in

Ridiculing and walking all ovr me, ironically she assumed herslf as my friend. While i never forgive her, she blamed evrything on me.

I've had a lot of bad things done to me in my life... I don't really find it worth my while to hold a grudge, so I've pretty much forgiven and forgotten them. (Then moved on with my life leaving those people behind me)

At the moment my ex husband is on my sh*t list, but I'm sure I'll forgive him eventually too (he can't help that he's an ignorant idiot) :P

told me that he wanted me by his side and drove over 1,000 miles just so he can say it was all B/S

My mom chose her job (being a phone sex operator) over me, my brother and my dad. She met a guy on her sex phone line and still talks to him. She loves him. It's ****** up. My parents' marriage was never the same and her relationships with her children were never the same. I just can't forgive her. As far as she knows, we have a good relationship, but really, I still hold a grudge. I think she is selfish and that is something I cannot stand.

My father lived in my house for over a year without paying rent, built a drug lab there, and got me arrested. Then returned after I kicked him out, and created $250,000 worth of damage with a shotgun and some matches.

I was serving my country, in Mississippi, during Hurricane Katrina.

It's a toss up between my father sexually abusing me for several years, and my husband having sex with both my sisters and telling me that he did it for me.

Totally agree with KittyGalore,
He abandoned me when I needed him the most.
Although one day i'll be glad he did