What's the rudest thing someone has said to you (hopefully it wasn't on EP)?

"Why don't you have a girlfriend yet? Are you gay?"

Thanks dad. Thanks for saying that at my 16th birthday in front of my friends.

""You are a waste of atoms.""
I kicked him in the balls.... dickhead.

I am going to shock some of you with this answer. I might classify this as hateful, but its up to your interpretation. It certainly had been a rude statement, at the very least. Let me first state, without judgement, the scene. My family does not accept my sexual orientation, nor do they accept my democratic political values. I believe in faith, and have been active in ecumenical faith (similar to Unitarian), for a few years now. Yet every Christmas, I hear awful things from my family. I respect their belief in the right to bear arms, it just what they said they "should see done to me" with them, that makes me wonder about all this hate in the world. They proudly discuss their membership in the NRA, and some in my family have Arian eugenic ideologies...(one uncle has a wall size swastika mural in his home). Frankly, gays are not the sole recipient of their hate. They proudly display Confederate flags (which I understand can be a Dixie symbol to some.) They once said to me, that it means we don't like Yankee n lovers (I detest the word they chose) down here.
These statements have made me fear my revealing my orientation to them. Yet, somehow a power in me answered a question honestly, when confronted. I just didn't want to hold that fear in me any longer. Every holiday trip to Oklahoma or East Texas always felt the same for me.....intense fear and incessant worry and indecisiveness in my mind. Yet, I didn't answer honestly for them, I did so for me. I had to release the emotional claws off the muscle of my heart. The anxiety, etc. had to go....So in December 2012....I let it go.....Think about the emotional bracing this took, how many of my own breaths I had to force back in, just to hold composure. I wanted to collapse into tears, when I was told that I no longer exist, in their eyes. I was also told that either I should just end my own life, or if I was too chicken to do it, I deserve it if it was done for me. I won't be going back next year, because I am not welcome. As far as they are concerned, I have thrown away my "fire insurance" policy ( I will burn in hell), and there just isn't anything positive they can ever see in me.

I think the rudest was when I went to a hairstylist who acted like my hair and hairline were grossing her out. It was the strangest thing. I have nice thick straight hair but my hairline is kind of uneven (common thing) and I have 2 cowlicks which other stylists have said help to add volume/bounce...this woman was like "OMG I don't know how to work with this!" The way she acted about the whole situation made it sound like I came in with head lice or something...it was ridiculous!!

"People on that EP site are dopes."

you are wrong.... oO

My boyfriend's grandma commented on how big my butt was in front of his ENTIRE family... extended family and all. There were at least 30 people in the room, and she's loud. We had only been together for a few months at the time, and I have social anxiety, so I was already freaking out just being in that room lol.

Questionator why would you ask a question that you would have to censor?

being called a cow **** eating ***** in real life .Being called an ignorant ***** on here .

An ex-boyfriend said to me after we broke up, "I didn't even like you. I felt bad for you, so I gave you a chance"