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Whats wrong in coming home at 4.30am.....?

....I was out of town tuesday morning and will be back home tonight, tuesday night around 7.30pm son told me over the phone when i called that daddy will be attending a birthday party of his high school friend with his friends and daddy telling me that he already told me about it (in fact i cant recall any)...



Last night kids and I were chatting and younger kid told me that daddy went home at 4.30am.. called my hubby on mobile and asked him why he went home at 4.30am (with calm voice) knowing that kids were all alone 11&7y/o boys. He then asked me " Whats wrong in going home at 4.30am......?,He added, I cant see anything wrong?".. wtf

Kids were the one who locked the door when he left and the one to opened the door when he came in....
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Tell your husband he's an idiot and all he needs to know is that if he ever does it again, you'll have his balls in your purse.
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 7:20PM
The issue here is the kids being left home alone, that's what's wrong. Not a very responsible father at all. In fact, he could be done for child negligence. How did the kids know he got home at that time? Did they realise they were home alone?
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 7:19PM
Whats right about coming home at 4.30am
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:21AM
What he did was agaist the law (at least on the UK) - don't let him do this to your children ever again - they are too young to be left alone overnight!

I hope things work out for you.
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 10:58AM
what a prat.
if he REALLY doesnt know why, he needs some re-educating!
good luck!
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 3:28AM
Wow! You've got problems with this man . . he is taking your absence as leave to "do his own thing". Not good enough when you've got kids!

Of course he knows why it is wrong so his response to you is just being "sulky little boy" I think. Is there any one else you can leave the kids with if you go out of town again? Grandparents, Aunty, best friend?

It is dangerous for such young kids to be home alone - he needs to face up to his responsibilities. I'm sorry you have this problem to cope with.
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 3:49AM
you have to explain what is wrong with it. Firstly, no babysitter. Secondly, he should tell you before he leaves to go somewhere--always have him leave a note where he is going and when and when he'll be back. This is a safety measure. He should at least call you.
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 4:28AM
shocking he doesn't realize what he did was wrong. Kids alone at home overnight...
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 4:50AM
Yah i dont get how he doesnt see whats wrong with leaving two young children home alone like that. Even if they are seriously independent and mature for their age.

Is he mentally challenge, or maturity challenged? your profile says you are between 31-35 years of age. This means you had first child between 20 and 24, im guessing he was around the same age. Im guessing this because it sounds like a guy who didn't get his youth out of his system. The fact that he did this while your gone makes me wonder if he thinks your domineering, controlling or remind him of the responsibility he has gotten himself into. Don't fret if this is the case at least hes stuck around, so many guys run off when faced with responsibility.
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 5:49AM
NOthing! It is 5:30 am here and I just got home and had a great time :o)
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Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 2:06PM
ummm, if your spouse does not know what is wrong with leaving two young children at home alone and returning at 4:30 am, i don't know what to say. anything could have happened in his absence.
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