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When a guy says he's not interested cos he likes sporty girls what is he REALLY trying to say?

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5 Answers to "When a guy says he's not interested cos he likes sporty girls what is he REALLY trying to say?"

  1. rashi2487 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by rashi2487 Nov 21st, 2012 at 11:34AM

    From my perspective, it could mean two things. First, i am not his type and maybe obviously he is feeling too overwhelmed.. so its his pointer of telling me to lay off. Second, maybe he is demanding more on the performance side.. be a sport kind, much more kink or you know the usual guy stuff to be implemented.

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  2. PrettyPrecarious - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by PrettyPrecarious Mar 31st, 2013 at 3:15AM

    That he's superficial, so you should say "Thanks for the heads up" and be glad you didn't waste your time on someone so false. Most intelligent people out there don't judge books by the cover. That can get you so far in life but it means you are writing off a whole bunch of people who may be fantastic ;) Don't worry VV once you have the stars align for you in life, guys like these won't even cross your mind and you won't want them to, because they are so false and who needs fake people in their life?

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  3. Ifasixwasa9 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Ifasixwasa9 Mar 28th, 2013 at 6:11AM

    I don't get this whole "he's a giant loser" "He's a douche" stuff.. If he's not attracted to you, he's not attracted to you! Simple!
    I like chicks that are in shape too, does it make me a douche because that's what my body says looks good?

    And I have to disagree with MissouriBoy. There are PLENTY of fat women. (men too for that matter)

    Being "curvy" doesn't mean you are 100 pounds overweight.

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  4. VoluptuousVix3n - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by VoluptuousVix3n Mar 28th, 2013 at 7:04PM

    That's just your opinion sweetheart. Not as many people agree with that view as mainstream media will have you believe. At the end of the day most men have actually chosen the curvaceous body type over the slender body type, showing that curves are predominantly attractive to a majority of the male population (and some females as well) as it is a symbol of fertility and sexuality. Take Marilyn Monroe and Jayne Mansfield for example. They are the epitome of all things seductive ;) each to their own I suppose, but again that is just your opinion and not that many would share that view point, the world is tiring of stick insect prepubescent looking women.

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  5. Ifasixwasa9 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Ifasixwasa9 Mar 29th, 2013 at 9:41AM

    Where did I say "stick insect prepubescent looking women" ??? I said I like a woman who is in shape. In shape does not mean anorexic, model thin.. It means "in shape". The woman I am dating is VERY curvy, (as in south american awesome curvy) yet she is in shape. Being athletic and in shape doesn't mean you have to be skinny like a toothpick. I'd disagree that guys are more attracted to women who are way overweight. I have lots of guy friends who would without a shadow of a doubt pick a thinner, in shape woman over one who is 100 pounds overweight any day of the week. None of my friends are married to, or date, overweight women. I guess we are all a bunch of douchebags.. LOL The opinion poll that states otherwise had men answer that question while their wives or GF's were looking over their shoulder.. LOL As you say, each to their own. And that's just my opinion... sweetheart...

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  6. Pantyhoseman438 - 70+ years old - male

    Posted by Pantyhoseman438 Mar 23rd, 2013 at 1:05PM

    I think he is saying to the girl he is saying that too, that she is not his type and he is not interested in her.

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  7. FreakyNature - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by FreakyNature Dec 11th, 2012 at 11:47AM

    Most likely he likes a more athletically built woman or a woman that has a liking for sports and exercising.

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  8. VoluptuousVix3n - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by VoluptuousVix3n Dec 12th, 2012 at 7:52AM

    Oh ok, so pretty much he was calling me fat, yet he went for a skeletal chick who probably couldn't last half as long as I can on a treadmill, stair master, weights machine etc??? I seriously don't get men, I really don't... She ended up cheating on him in the end, ah well karma.... :D

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  9. FreakyNature - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by FreakyNature Dec 12th, 2012 at 11:32AM

    Yes, pretty much, but I'm sorry that happened to you. He's a giant loser. And karma really is a b!otch. He deserved it.

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