He has probably found someone else ...
This will not be a popular answer--but it's almost certainly the correct one!
I agree with steve43
He wants to find somebody else ...
I think he HAS tol you why ... you jus don' like the reason.<br />
Not that I blame you. There will be more ... an better, as well. <br />
Its not even you . It means he doesnt understand anything , he could care less about you , and is a pla<x>yer . He likes to be liked . And frankly hid ego is bigger then anything else on his body .
God I hope you are 16. if your a teen then **** it move on grow up its gets better. If your an adult take some self esteem classes nothing will make people run away faster them self dislike.
He probably did find someone else but whatever the reason, why waste your time and energy trying to figure him out. I know it's only human nature to want to understand the unknown, but he just isn't into you. Maybe after the kissing and cuddling he realized he just didn't feel the sparks he thought he would before that. I know that's happened to me before. I have had guys I talked to all the time (text/IM) and we hung out plenty and then when the big moment comes- BLAH.. just didn't feel right. It happens. Nothing personal, but sometimes ppl just don't have as much chemistry as they thought they would before the big kiss.
It hurts just as bad when a woman does this to a guy. But he may not totally understand himself. Also the other person might be sparing you even more hurt with an answer. <br />
It's hard to do, but just accept the fact that they no longer feel the same about you and it's over.
Would you really, really feel much better if he HAD told you the reason? No one ever likes being rejected no matter what the reason.<br />
However, since he didn't tell you, this is probably what he would have said if he'd been honest: "You were really attracting me for a while there.....then I found someone else who is even better looking and more fun. I don't want to seem shallow and, anyway, if she doesn't work out, I want to still be able to get back with you....."
that right there is why "i tried to be fun" you have to not try just be " i'm nothing and I am tired of life" really nothing come on now learn to like your self. be single till you know you rock the plant each time you get up "this is my fault" really who cares do you know how meany guys live on this planet he is just one dumb **** among millions.
it really doesnt matter why, theres no use obsessing about it. He is over it, its his loss.
It is his loss 'cuz he let such a decent woman get away from him and he is too stupid, self absorbed or just plain horny to realize it. Walk away...
it is his loss because there is someone for everyone... even though the two of you may not be compatible, you are someone else's dream girl
He probably just wanted to make out with you. Sorry if your feelings are hurt. It sucks but boys are like that. Get to know them a little better or a little longer first.... Maybe that will help