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When a loved one passed away & it was hard for you to let it sink in, how did you finally accept it & begin to heal?

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Asked By: Cynic4Life 31-35, F  1 year ago

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6 Answers to "When a loved one passed away & it was hard for you to let it sink in, how did you finally accept it & begin to heal?"

  1. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Mar 9th, 2012 at 7:57AM

    grieve hard for a year and eventually real life starts to creep back in

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  2. whitewhitecloud07 - 31-35 years old

    Posted by whitewhitecloud07 Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:19AM

    no one can live forever, i have to accept that truth

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  3. tikitour - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by tikitour Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:10AM

    when i was accepting the pain as a constant companion. it was like it was starting to dictate if i was happy or not. i think it gets to a point that you realise it is okay to grieve but not take it with you everywhere. it becomes like an excuse why you carnt be happy? for eg....i want to enjoy my life and go and find what i like but how can i behave this way when i am grieving? should i be unhappy forever? in our own time this comes to us...the letting go..and it is another saddness. we are funny us humans always over thinking how we should behave! but in the end you have to give yourself a chance/break. healing comes and living again begins your next chapter

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  4. Fiona2007 - 51-55 years old

    Posted by Fiona2007 Mar 9th, 2012 at 8:59AM

    Time. Do we ever really heal?

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  5. Cynic4Life - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Cynic4Life May 12th, 2012 at 12:17AM

    Maybe not completely, but it can get better. It can always hurt but not as frequently. Like instead of everyday, for ex., it may become every now and again, although it still hurts. Time eases the pain.

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  6. djredneck7269 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by djredneck7269 Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:20AM

    when our son no longer came home and we had a memorial service for him. healing is still the hardest part. no parent should have to do this.

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  7. Cynic4Life - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Cynic4Life May 12th, 2012 at 12:20AM

    Noone should. It is very hard I can imagine (as I do not know personally). It will always hurt, but passing of time and having to go on with life is part of the healing. God/time does not make you forget, but He/it heals.

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  8. Cynic4Life - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Cynic4Life May 12th, 2012 at 12:20AM

    And also my sympathies to you...

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  9. Whateverrrrr - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Whateverrrrr Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:02AM

    It still didn't hit me.

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  10. Cynic4Life - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Cynic4Life May 12th, 2012 at 12:25AM

    When and if it does, please work through it. It will hurt, but you must go on for your own sake.

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