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When a man says "Do you wanna hang out sometime? " he really means?

I just got home from the bar. I met a guy who seemed pretty nice. We were talking and the conversation was ok. He then said, "Do you wanna hang out?" and I said "When?" expecting him to make a date or something. He said "later tonight" Why are men so darn easy? Clearly he just wanted to take me home why didn't he just say it? I didn't want to go home with him . Honestly, what has happened to good old fashioned courtship?

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Cause when you are not comfy asking for a date it is the way shy guys ask for a date.

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midlifemadness	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 5:50AM LOL amerind! he may have meant... lets go hang out later.. like lets go somewhere else... not necessarily did he mean sleep with you. I had a guy ask me that and we left the club at 4AM and went to eat... not sex.... so you never really not, but always best to error on the side of caution. Never go off alone... be smart... but don't assume Rated: +3Vote for this!
mariellarose	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 5:50AM When a man asks me if I'd like to hang out some time, he literally means, would I like to hang out some time. However. You met this man in a bar. It's kind of safe to say that you may have had that coming. Rated: +3Vote for this!
MrsIcb4rP	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 5:51AM women set the standards. period. men throw out lines hoping to hook an easy fish. you want to be a hard fish to catch. men like a challenge if its something they want. good news is he was at least attracted & interested. if it was just about hooking up he probably won't want to talk to you which is fine coz that's not what you wanted otherwise you would've went home with him. gentlemen are still around. Rated: +3Vote for this!
orionlover69	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 5:51AM Dont assume so much. I dont want to **** every chick I hang out with even though it may seem like it now. I actually have plenty of platonic friendships. I get bored and hang out with them. For me, and depending on our actual relationship, I would have to go for the first option and call it a hang out. Thats just me. Rated: +2Vote for this!
charlo	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 5:51AM Really means: 'I like you and I want to get to know you better' Rated: +2Vote for this!
Duckgirl	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 4:41AM It could mean really hang out or lets have sex hottie. Rated: +1Vote for this!
amerind	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 12:31AM Oh, I can't be bothered....... Rated: +1Vote for this!
buttercups1966	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 12:43AM He means do u wanna fxxx Rated: +1Vote for this!
Inebriety	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 12:47AM I forget which comedian said it but "Do you wanna hang out sometime? " basically means: "Want some Dlck? " and courtship is dead and has been for a looong loooong time. It went out with the trash along with ballroom dancing; good fashion; and abstinence (or at least not being a *****). Good luck finding one of the few good guys out there, just keep in mind 80% of guys/people suck. Rated: +1Vote for this!
SummerWind18	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 12:54AM It can mean a lot of things. Possible meanings: 1. let's go on a date. 2. let's hit the afterparty, this is too fun to end now. 3. in your case, it means let's have sex, especially if it's only you and him in that same night. Rated: +1Vote for this!
miguelote	Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 11:30AM I think since you met him in a bar he might not have the most honorable intentions, which by the way, is not the best place to find good old fashioned courtship. Perhaps the supermarket or some other non-alcoholic place might be better. Just a thought. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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