I've never used it for manipulation, and as far as I know, nobody's used it to manipulate me.
I have been used, but the way I was abused and manipulated has been emotional not sexual.
When I watched my friends do it - and said to myself "I will NEVER use it that way". I only cheat myself when I use to manipulate or withholding it as punishment. I want mine just as much as he wants his ;)
when i realised i was good at it
When I wanted to be a Rockstar (about age 11)
Right after the honeymoon I realized I'd been played when she decided to stop pretending to be a nymphomaniac as she actually had no interest in sex but knew that I did.
'twas ever thus!
Just figuring this out...now trying to convince myself to use it to get hubby to get in shape.<br />
My mom and sisters have been masters at it for years. I apparently missed the manipulation gene.
The first time I wore lipstick I felt the power of my sexuality.
A former girl friend often used sex to get what she wanted.
The sex was good but in time it became less frequent until it was not happening at all. It was time to move on.
when did you realize it?