I've never used it for manipulation, and as far as I know, nobody's used it to manipulate me.
I have been used, but the way I was abused and manipulated has been emotional not sexual.
When I watched my friends do it - and said to myself "I will NEVER use it that way". I only cheat myself when I use to manipulate or withholding it as punishment. I want mine just as much as he wants his ;)
when i realised i was good at it
When I wanted to be a Rockstar (about age 11)
Right after the honeymoon I realized I'd been played when she decided to stop pretending to be a nymphomaniac as she actually had no interest in sex but knew that I did.
'twas ever thus!
Just figuring this out...now trying to convince myself to use it to get hubby to get in shape.<br />
My mom and sisters have been masters at it for years. I apparently missed the manipulation gene.
The first time I wore lipstick I felt the power of my sexuality.
when did you realize it?