Id say it has been and still is a work in progress, i definitely have become harder in the last few years & standing up for myself. Id say i must hve been about 26 years old. Got tired of everyone walking all over me.
i guess when i decided that if i feellike a prostitute then its time to say no to my then husband and split up...before that i put up with awful emotionless soulless sex.....then i kind of woke up and thought its my body, and i wont be treated like this anymore...that was 2000 and ive got stronger since.......( and not feeling like that anymore.whoopee!)
i think i was about 35 when i just stopped taking any crap from people,as you get older you realise that nonsense people have no place in a quiet life.
60 days ago, to be exact!