As soon as you're willing to accept responsibility for your actions.
Being a bit of a control freak, it was a shock to first realise that I WASN'T necessarily the reason things were happening a certain way.
Knowing you're the problem isn't the same thing as knowing a solution.
In any situation that's gone wrong I always try to see if I am the problem first.. And if I can clearly see that I'm not then I will try to figure out who ultimately is responsible
Look at yourself first, before you start placing blame elsewhere
When you become an adult.
Taking responsibility is the essence of adulthood.
Rule of thumb is that when everyone close to you is saying the same thing you need to start listening.
****oh my *****
A light bulb just went off in my head.....I have not been listening to my friends and family.....everyone has been telling me the same thing and i have been fighting it...
I never blame other people for my mistakes, and you know it. :)
If you look at yourself FIRST..You find you don't have so many others to blame! Self accountability is a real time saver! :)