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When do you stop blaming others and look at yourself?

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    Sacron11 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Sacron11 May 25th, 2012 at 5:28PM

    When you become an adult.
    Taking responsibility is the essence of adulthood.

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10 Answers to "When do you stop blaming others and look at yourself?"

  1. zbignue - 70+ years old - male

    Posted by zbignue May 25th, 2012 at 2:42PM

    As soon as you're willing to accept responsibility for your actions.

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  2. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard May 25th, 2012 at 2:50PM

    Being a bit of a control freak, it was a shock to first realise that I WASN'T necessarily the reason things were happening a certain way.

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  3. Honey26 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Honey26 May 25th, 2012 at 2:41PM

    I always blame myself first.... it's only recently I've learned that sometimes others are to blame. It's quite freeing.

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  4. jeanemae - 26-30 years old

    Posted by jeanemae May 25th, 2012 at 2:41PM

    Knowing you're the problem isn't the same thing as knowing a solution.

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  5. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by bijouxbroussard May 25th, 2012 at 2:46PM

    Very true.

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  6. Anonymous67 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Anonymous67 May 25th, 2012 at 3:12PM

    In any situation that's gone wrong I always try to see if I am the problem first.. And if I can clearly see that I'm not then I will try to figure out who ultimately is responsible

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  7. LordR1160 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by LordR1160 May 25th, 2012 at 2:40PM

    Look at yourself first, before you start placing blame elsewhere

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  8. phoenix2011 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by phoenix2011 May 25th, 2012 at 3:30PM

    Rule of thumb is that when everyone close to you is saying the same thing you need to start listening.

    ****oh my *****

    A light bulb just went off in my head.....I have not been listening to my friends and family.....everyone has been telling me the same thing and i have been fighting it...

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  9. xxorama - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by xxorama May 25th, 2012 at 3:02PM

    I never blame other people for my mistakes, and you know it. :)

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  10. sierra33 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by sierra33 May 25th, 2012 at 3:00PM

    If you look at yourself FIRST..You find you don't have so many others to blame! Self accountability is a real time saver! :)

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