As soon as you're willing to accept responsibility for your actions.
Being a bit of a control freak, it was a shock to first realise that I WASN'T necessarily the reason things were happening a certain way.
Knowing you're the problem isn't the same thing as knowing a solution.
In any situation that's gone wrong I always try to see if I am the problem first.. And if I can clearly see that I'm not then I will try to figure out who ultimately is responsible
Look at yourself first, before you start placing blame elsewhere
When you become an adult.<br />
Taking responsibility is the essence of adulthood.
Rule of thumb is that when everyone close to you is saying the same thing you need to start listening.<br />
****oh my ***** <br />
A light bulb just went off in my head.....I have not been listening to my friends and family.....everyone has been telling me the same thing and i have been fighting it...
I never blame other people for my mistakes, and you know it. :)
If you look at yourself FIRST..You find you don't have so many others to blame! Self accountability is a real time saver! :)