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When do you think is the right time to lose your virginity?

Is there a certain age? Certain type of person? And how do you know that your ready?

Ok, Im 15, and I feel like I should wait untill marraige even though I found a guy I really really love. So, Im not trying to rush into things. Im just curious about what other people think.
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Age is not especially relevant ... maturity and love are both the key issues ... if you can approach sex with maturity and passion and understand what you are doing and are with the right person ... that's when you can afford to lose your virginity, not before.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:52PM
I SAID DON'T BECOME A ****. ERASE THIS WHY DON'T YOU? Your avatar explains you well.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:53PM
When you marry is the most romantic and best time.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:54PM
this is piece of wise advice i heard from "south park" of all places.
there's a time and place for everything, and it's called college.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:54PM
When you meet that special person that you hope to spend the rest of your life with
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:52PM
AFTER you have learned about safe sex.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:54PM
I'm not of the belief that one should wait until marriage. Wait for LOVE.

..and as far as knowing when you're ready, if you have to ask....you're not ready.

I used to hate when people would tell me this, but you just KNOW when the time is right.

...and don't let anyone pressure you into it until you do.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:52PM
about 21 to 25.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:54PM
i think it really depends on who you are, i was 17 :P how long have you been with this guy hun? if you wanna wait till your married that cool but if you decide to do it before that just MAKE SURE hes worth it, make sure you dont give it to some A**HOLE who dosent really appriciate you, >_< at 15 theres a lotta lil friggers out their who ONLY wanna get laid so be careful and be safe :)
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:54PM
Id say not until you're married :/ there is like a herd of pregnant 16yr girls at my school. D: SO DONT! wait until you grow up a little. or at least until you're past high school O_o
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 6:01PM
When you're 17+ and in love.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:54PM
Once it's legal and you've met someone you want to share it with.
If you need to ask how to know when you're ready, you're not ready.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:10PM
My dad said 67, so I will go with that
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:10PM
Only you know in your heart when that time is for you. Just make sure your first time is something you won't regret for the rest of your life.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:10PM
never..keep it.... :)
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:24PM
Let me tell you about a girl I know,
had a drink about a hour ago.
Sitting in a corner by herself, in a bar in downtown Hell.

She heard a noise and she looked through the door.
And saw a man she'd never seen before.
Light skin, light blue eyes, a double-chin and a plastic smile.
Well, her heart raced as he walked through the door
And took an empty seat next to her at the bar.
"My brand new car is parked right outside. How'd ya like to go for a ride?"
And she said. "Wait a minute I have to think."
He said, "That's fine. May I please buy you a drink"
One drink turned into 3 or 4 and they left and got into his car
and they drove away someplace real far.

"Now babe the time has come.
How'd ya like to have a little fun?"
And she said, "If we could only please be on our way, I will not run."

That's when things got out of control.
She didn't want to, he had his way.
She said, "Let's Go!"
He said, "No Way!
Come on babe it's your lucky day.
Shut your mouth, we're gonna do it my way.
Come on baby don't be afraid,
if it wasn't for date rape I'd never get laid."

He finished up and he started the car
He turned around and drove back to the bar.
He said. "Now baby don't be sad,
in my opinion you weren't half-bad."
She picked up a rock,
threw it at the car,
hit him in the head,
now he's got a big scar.
Come on party people won't you listen to me.
Date Rape Stylee.

The next day she went to her drawer,
looked up her local attorney at law,
went to the phone and filed the police report
and then she took the guy's *** to court.
Well, the day he stood in front of the judge
he screamed, "She lies!
That little ****!"
The judge knew that he was full of ****
and he gave him 25 years.
And now his heart is filled with tears.

One night in jail it was getting late.
He was butt-raped by a large inmate.
And he screamed,
but the guards paid no attention to his cries.

That's when things got out of control.
The moral of the date rape story,
it does not pay to be drunk and horny.

But that's the way it had to be.
They locked him up and threw away the key.
Well, I can't take pity on men of his kind,
even though he now takes it in the behind.

But that's the way it had to be.
They locked him up and threw away the key.
Well, I can't take pity on men of his kind,
even though he now takes it in the behind.

DATE RAPE!

Lananananana Lananananana
Lananananana Ladadalanana

She didn't want to!
She didn't want to!
She didn't want to!
She didn't want to!

TAKE IT!
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:35PM
If I had to do it again, I'd say never...sex is very overrated and nothing I can't handle all alone...
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:35PM
I personally think you should wait until marriage, if this guy you are in love with, cant except that you want to wait til marriage then he's not right for you.

I wish i would have waited until marriage!!
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:54PM
The time is right when you fell ready accept the responsibility of having a child. No contraception method is 100 percent safe. The chances are, that a pregnancy could result from you loosing your virginity. You need to be of the legal age, emotionally and financially stable, have a loving responsible partner and have a good knowledge of the following parenting skills: first aid, child care, food and nutrition, logistics, communication and education skills, etc. The alternative to having a child is to abort it, which is both physically and emotionally damaging. There is also a risk of getting a disease, and as some diseases have no symptoms, it is wise to get yourself tested regularly once you have lost your virginity. Physical relationships are for those who are responsible adults. Are you a responsible adult? If not, then wait until you are.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 5:27PM
Once you are out of High School, you will be ready when you want to and when you think you are ready.

I say "once you are out of high school" because I find it a bit sad when someone loses their virginity before they're 17. I mean yeesh, you're still in school, there's so much social BS you have to deal with from just about every source under the sun, and you aren't even old enough to get your Driver's License or vote yet, why would you want to add teenage pregnancy and STDs to the list of things that you have to be legitimately worried about? Lord knows life is screwed up enough as it is at that age without, well, adding screwing to your to do list.

Not to mention, when you look back at yourself, your life, do you really want to say "I lost my virginity when I was 15"? I can pretty much guarantee that would not be something you'd be proud to admit.

Give yourself time. Stop worrying about it. Learn to say no and not worry so much about what other people think you should do or when they think you should do it. If he loves you, he will wait for you. Don't ever allow yourself be bullied into something you don't want to do. It is not and will never worth it, and you'll feel like **** afterwards, and you'll feel that way for a very, very long time.

Sex, even amazing mind-blowing sex, is not worth sacrificing your safety, your integrity, or your self-respect for. It can and should be great fun and feel wonderful, but if you are with the wrong person or make yourself do it when you're not ready to it can be frightening, painful, humiliating, and even dangerous. If you are at all hesitant about it, don't do it. (I say "hesitant", meaning "I just don't know" or "I'm not comfortable with this" or "I just don't think I want to." I didn't say nervous or a little scared. That's normal, so long as the scared is "I hope I do okay" and "Ah! Sex! Never done this before, so that makes me intimidated" rather than "I'm scared he'll leave me if I don't" or "I'm scared he'll force me if I say no". There's a big difference between the good kind of scared and the bad kind of scared.)

I promise hands down that it's best when you do it with someone you trust and deeply care for, and when you are able to do it without the worry of pregnancy or disease. Knowing that, why in the world make yourself settle for anything less than the best? Some things are worth waiting for. I think sex is one of them. I'm not religious or anything like that, and I don't have a problem with sex before marriage. I have never been married and I am no longer a virgin, but I waited until I was ready to do it because I wanted to. It was right for me. I'm very glad that I did and I had a wonderful first experience, something which very few people can claim.

And for goodness sake, use a condom! A pvc one if you can't use latex, but never, ever have sex with a guy who tries to talk, guilt, bully, or trick you into not using one. That's a bad, bad scene in so many ways.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 1:06PM
about midnight
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