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society seems to have guidelines, unspoken but they are there, why? and when?
mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F 7 Answers Apr 22 in Dating & Relationships

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Some women feel threatened by a unattached woman and some men feel chased by them. I have been blessed have not run into this myself as of yet.

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when she doesn't wear black for 7 long years

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I've been a widow for years, and people treat me as less of a threat than a divorcee, if you mean what I think. They assume divorcees are looking for someone new.

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What is unspoken exactly?

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I'm not sure I understand the question. Why would a widow be a threat and to whom?

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I am a widow, and have a lot of friends on facebook, but now I am accused of trying to steal men, never meet these men, we are just friends meet on facebook. Men in question widowers, I just don't understand why I am all of a sudden looked on differently.

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Ah. Are those accusing you of stealing men women? They see you as a threat because you are single and they assume you as being lonely and on the prowl and that is why they mistake your actions of friendship as something more.

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Also, I am sorry for your loss and hope that this situation changes for you.

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I suppose so, but it is not nice, to say the least. i am a woman yes and lonely , yes. But do I want someone elses man? No. The sad thing is the kind became my friend because he is a widow and still having a hard time, and we share what most don't understand :(

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It is very hurtful and sometimes people don't realize how cruel they can be.

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thank you, it is really for him he has turned into a really good friend, even showed up at the funeral home when my mama passed to show his respect and check on me, when you become a widow all of the friends that you and your spouse shared as a couple leave you and you are left alone yet again, friends are few are far between, so another has to disappear :(,
again Thank you

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try not to let it get you down, you have had enough sorrow already. Maybe try a support group. Sometimes it helps to be around others experiencing the same situations.

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Facebook Wars. Does anyone ever understand them? Do they ever mean anything? If some pinhead feels threatened by another person bing on facebook...it is time to push back from the keyboard.

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