If you live in the United States, you might look up "Project Rachel". It is a counselling service precisely for women in your situation. the goal is to find healing.
It fades. For everyone the timing is different.
Well, everyones different and they heal differently. A friend of mine had one at 16 and she's 20 and has finally came to peace with it.
I had an abortion over 10 years ago and I still think about the baby and I named her as well and ive said my goodbyes but I still think about what she would have been like.
Everyone is different.
You will never forget your child. But it will fade over time.